The 8-year-old girl has a short temper. Parents should take active educational measures and discipline children patiently. Children's childhood is a critical period for education. Parents should not miss this golden period. At the same time, they must learn more about education and change their incorrect way of discipline. Parents believe that children will become better by doing so.
How to educate an 8-year-old girl with a bad temper
1. Divert your attention. When faced with unsolvable problems, children often become very upset. Parents can appropriately shift their attention to other interesting things, and then gradually ease their irritability.
2. Pay more attention to communication. If the child is irritable and angry, the parents should pay attention to the communication with the child and guide the child to express their ideas. After saying that, the bad temper will almost disappear.
3. Listen patiently. When children lose their temper, parents need to keep calm. We should not forcibly stop, condemn, accuse or comfort them. We should listen patiently and pay attention to children's language needs and body language expression.
4. Respect children and do not make moral evaluations. Parents should not be too strict. Once a child rebells, they will label the child "disobedient", or even "above the line". Use less such words in the process of communication with children to reduce their rebellious psychology.
5. Multi point understanding and multi point tolerance. Rebellion period is a life process that everyone must go through. In other words, it is understandable that children are in the rebellious period when their parents were young before. Let children fully feel their parents' tolerance, which is conducive to the emotional precipitation of children and reduces unnecessary verbal collision.
6. Give children rights. Many strict parents may start to educate their children when they find their children's rebellious behavior, and they do not give their children any chance to express their ideas. There are also parents who issue punishment forms to their children, "Do not allow to watch TV" and "Do not allow to go out to play". Such an overbearing way of communication can never be used!
In the process of communication, parents should remember to leave their children the right to express, to control their own time, to decide their own affairs, and to have their own privacy.
What should I do if an 8-year-old girl can't handle it
1. Check your behavior, and see if your attitude is a little bit over the top?
2. Patiently tell the child what to do and what not to do, and go by yourself to demonstrate your own practices, so that the child can experience them personally and learn the correct practices from imitation.
3. For stubborn children, as a mother, we must have more understanding and patience to preach to our children, so that they can be educated and grow up healthily!
4. Never beat or scold a child. That will only make the child's temper more and more strange and less educational!
5. Parents should be guided and educated according to their children's psychological characteristics. Generally speaking. Parents should cherish this period of their children and have a positive attitude towards education. Parents should see the growth of their children, respect their self-esteem, establish a close and equal friendship with them, and allow their children to participate in family management.
6. Look at things from a child's perspective. Properly meet the wishes of girls. A girl's desire for independence can be realized with the help of her parents in a harmonious atmosphere. Parents should not only see the girl's childish and immature side, but also see her independent and growing side. Properly meeting girls' desire for independence will improve girls' autonomy and self-confidence and help girls grow up quickly.
Children are too selfish. How to educate them
Parents should teach their children to learn to care about others, understand their parents' hard work, and help them do something within their power. When eating, parents need to tell their children that they must divide the food into several portions, one for themselves, and the rest for others in the family. Don't enjoy it alone.
Parents' words and deeds are the most basic and important role models for children. In their usual words and deeds, parents show sympathy for others' misfortunes, help people in difficulty, and a warm and caring attitude towards society, which will affect children and make them care about others. Selfish parents can only bring up selfish children. Don't expect her to be considerate of others.
