Being able to bend and stretch means that being able to bend and stretch has both hardness and softness.
In ancient times, those who have achieved great things must be great husbands who can bend and stretch.
There are two states in life: one is adversity, the other is prosperity.
1. In adversity, difficulties and pressure force the body and mind. At this time, the festival should know a word of "injustice", compromise, save strength, and wait for the turning point.
2. In a favorable situation, both luck and environment are beneficial to me. At this time, the festival should know the word "stretch", ride the wind for thousands of miles, and soar up to a higher level with favorable circumstances.
3. As a man, there should be both hardness and softness.
4. If a person is too strong, he will ignore the consequences and rise to the challenge. Such a person is prone to setbacks. Life is short. How many setbacks can he endure? If a person is too weak, he will be indecisive and miss the opportunity. Such a person is difficult to achieve great things. If he is weak all the time, he will not be able to support him.
5. To be a man, we should combine hardness with softness. When we can be rigid, we can be flexible. When we are rigid, we can be rigid. When we are soft, we can be flexible.
6. Rigidity is very important to a person, and it is the most valuable quality of a person. But it is also limited. It is right to hesitate in the face of difficulties and setbacks, but you must always be strong to the end without asking why. You must know that a strong person cannot last.
7. In addition, strong people are full of energy and blood. When encountering difficulties, they will exhaust their efforts. They will not be able to support until their blood essence is exhausted. Once they are convinced, they will have no chance to stand up again.
8. The softness can last for a long time. The softness has tolerance, and the sea embraces all rivers. It depends on the power of combining softness and accumulation to swallow and swallow.
9. But if you are always weak, you will be bullied.
10. As the saying goes, if a person has no fire, he doesn't know what he can do.
11. That is to say, if a person can only be weak and does not know how to be strong, he can do nothing.
12. If you live a hundred years without ambition, weakness can last for a long time, but it is also a waste of time.
13. When Chu and Han fought, Liu Bang and Xiang Yu fought for the world.
14. However, Liu Bang ruled the country with the help of Han Xin, a senior general, and Han Xin was therefore granted the title of marquis.
15. However, this Han Xin, a king and marquis, had endured humiliation.
16. When Han Xin was young, he was once fed by a beggar, and was laughed at by local people.
17. One day, when he was wandering in the street, he came across several local ruffians and hooligans who were the worst to offend.
18. They stopped Han Xin and laughed at his "floating mother food", and unreasonably asked Han Xin to climb over from their crotch, or they would kill him.
19. Han Xin thought for a while, then bent down to climb over from their crotch, then patted the dust on his clothes and flew away.
20. The local ruffians and hooligans laughed and said that Han Xin was a coward and would not achieve anything.
21. Later, Han Xin made great efforts to learn the art of war, and his military talents were unmatched. He was introduced to Liu Bang by Xiao He, and soon became a great general, making his own achievements.
22. If Han Xin had been so angry that he would rather fight with those hooligans than bend down, I am afraid that history will be rewritten. There will not be a powerful general in history, but only an unknown ghost.
23. Of course, history is history, and there is no hypothesis, but the wisdom in history is worth thinking about.
24. A true man can bend and stretch, and can be just and soft, which is derived from Han Xin's allusions.
25. In the eyes of ordinary people, the humiliation of the crotch is absolutely unbearable, which is a great disgrace. However, Han Xin climbed over and patted the dust on his body after climbing over. What a brave man! If you want to achieve a great cause, you have to bear the humiliation that ordinary people cannot bear.
26. History will give you a great task. You should be prepared to suffer hardship and humiliation. That is not only the test of your fate, but also your own verification of yourself.
27. In the face of humiliation, we should think calmly. If we don't accept that there will be a disaster of life, will we never recover? If this is the case, you should think twice before you act, rather than acting recklessly on your own whim.
28. Because when people encounter difficulties and humiliations, if their own strength is not enough to compete with the other side, the most important thing is to preserve their strength, rather than gamble on their own destiny and make indifferent efforts.
29. A moment of enthusiasm is the act of a reckless man, not the act of a person who has achieved great things.
30. Be able to bend and stretch. "Bending" is temporary, and temporary humiliation is for long-term career and ideal.
31. If you can't stand a moment's bend, you can't make your ambition come true and your ambition come true.
32. "Bending" is the preparation and accumulation stage of "stretching", just like the long jump of athletes, bending legs is to accumulate strength, gather the strength of the whole body to the power point, and then jump up and stretch the body in the air to reach the farthest goal.
