Children like to talk in class. First of all, parents should know that this kind of behavior of children does not respect teachers and classmates; Secondly, the knowledge that the teacher tells in class is not available in books. If you do not listen carefully, you may not do the problem when doing it, which will affect the children's academic performance. So, children like to talk in class. How should parents guide them?
How to deal with the first grade pupils who love talking in class
1. Give children more care and talk to their own children. Some children don't like to talk at home, but they always talk when they arrive at school. This may be because the environment at home is too oppressive for children to release their true thoughts. As a parent, you should consider whether to make your child feel insecure?
If children have psychological problems, parents should consider giving them more care, understand how to communicate with children in an equal and free way at home, and avoid excessive control that makes children lose the desire to speak.
2. Exercise children's self-control. Long term correction of children has no effect, so parents can consider taking home as a classroom to exercise their children. This practical exercise of self-control also has a certain effect on children. For example, let the child sit on the bench, no looking for 10 minutes, and no talking after 10 minutes. A brief exercise will also make the child form such a habit slowly.
3. Help children set up classroom rules. Children's love of talking in class will destroy the classroom order and affect other students' listening. Therefore, parents should tell children about the improper behavior. When children realize these, they will pay attention to controlling their own behavior.
At the same time, parents should also emphasize with their children that listening to the teacher is the main way to attend class, and actively think along with the teacher's ideas. If they encounter places that they cannot understand, they should mark these places, and then ask the teacher or other students for advice after class.
4. Improve children's attention. Many children often whisper with their classmates in class, which seriously disturbs the classroom order. In this case, parents can buy a book or toy to focus their children's attention. After a period of time, children's attention will be greatly improved.
5. Change the family speaking environment and conduct EQ education for children. Children love to talk, and sometimes it is also influenced by the family. For example, parents love to nag, complain and bicker at home. Children will gradually learn from the influence, so parents can consciously reduce nagging, complaining, and saying less words that have no actual and specific content. Children will gradually stop talking and answering. Teach children not to be impulsive and learn to respect others.
The reason why primary school students in grade one love talking in class
1. Children lack interest in learning. Learning interest is a kind of motivation. Without interest, you may talk and move in class. To solve the discipline problems of these children, we should start with cultivating and strengthening their interest in learning.
2. Poor self-control. Self control is the ability to control oneself. Children are young, and their ability of self-control is relatively low, which is manifested in disorderly speaking, doing small movements in class, and even moving down at will.
3. Resist the teacher. Sometimes, due to the simple teaching methods or careless work of teachers, they criticize some children, have too many responsibilities, or even satirize and satirize them, which makes children resist teachers.
What should parents do if they want their children to concentrate in class
1. Let children understand their influence on others. Many parents now let their children enter kindergartens after the age of three. For children at this stage, they are more curious about external things. If they don't pay attention, they may shift their attention and talk with others.
For them, they will also ignore the surrounding environment. At this time, parents should consider making them recognize their influence on others. This so-called self-esteem combined with morality may help them reduce the possibility of speaking.
2. Proper punishment enables children to pay for mistakes. Whatever you say is right, wrong is wrong, good is good, bad is bad. From this, we can also draw a conclusion that proper punishment is correct, and excessive punishment will only make children more stubborn. Let the child know his own behavior, there will be some things he does not want to accept, this punishment effect is enough.
