Children in puppy love are generally in the rebellious period. Parents must communicate with children and observe more. This is the responsibility that parents should shoulder. Juveniles in the ignorant period need their parents' company and more patient guidance. When dealing with children's puppy love, parents should be more patient and accompany more.
How to educate parents about children's puppy love
1. Parents should correctly understand their children's puppy love. Children should know that puppy love is a normal physiological and psychological reaction. There is no need to make a fuss about it. Instead, children should understand that love for the opposite sex is different from love for the opposite sex. Love needs time and energy, and it should be at the right age.
2. Guide children correctly. In the process of puppy love, parents should not rush to deny their children. Instead, they should teach them a general principle and severely warn them not to fall in love. This will not have much effect. As parents, they can guide their children in the right way to let them know that what they are doing is wrong, Parents should also learn to use their own reason and more open language to discuss this topic with their children, so that their children feel respected, rather than scolding them first.
3. Explain the reason to the children. When discovering children's puppy love, parents should tell them the damage and consequences caused by puppy love, tell them the reasons why they disagree with their puppy love, and reason with their children before they will listen.
4. Enrich children's life. At the same time, it can make children's spare time busy. Many children have time to fall in love because they are too busy at ordinary times. Parents can try to shift their children's emotional goals. For example, if he likes playing basketball, he can buy basketball for him. When he is busy, he has no time to think about things.
5. Take care of children at ordinary times. When parents discover their children's puppy love, they need not avoid it. It is normal for puppy love to appear in adolescence, which means that children's physical and mental development is normal. At this time, parents can express their feelings in a caring way, teach children how to communicate with boys and girls, and understand children's thoughts and feelings in a timely manner.
Correct guidance of parents for children's puppy love
1. Guide correct love values. Love itself must be harmless. A healthy love can benefit people for life. However, it is harmful for teenagers to start falling in love prematurely when they are physically and mentally immature and lack education and guidance. Although those middle school students who are trapped in puppy love will feel that they are very loyal to love, they are still young and do not know what is true love and the social responsibilities and obligations contained in love.
2. Strengthen the education of traditional moral concepts. In addition, the youth in Spring and Spring are not perfect in their traditional moral concepts. They do not know how to control themselves and respect the opposite sex in heterosexual communication. They are also not clear about the serious consequences of their heterosexual communication activities. Many young people do not care about anything when their emotions are impulsive, which has caused many social problems.
3. Reasonably expand children's communication circle. It can allow children to expand their social circle and get comfort from same-sex friends. It can also encourage children to form friends with respected adults who help each other and introduce them to same-sex partners of the same age who are good at both morality and learning. This can not only reduce the chance to get along with the opposite sex alone, but also distract attention from young lovers, It can also expand children's social circle.
What are the characteristics of puppy love
Blindness. We will find that adolescent children's puppy love is very blind, unable to distinguish between love and affection; The purpose of love is not clear, and it is easy to be influenced by your partner or classmates; Love because of curiosity or self-esteem.
Versatility. I don't know much about love, my mind is not mature and stable enough, and I am more impulsive when dealing with emotional problems. Sometimes teachers and parents don't know how to start because of their children's puppy love, but the couple has already parted ways or started the next relationship.
Simplicity. Adolescent children's puppy love usually doesn't consider the consequences. They just feel curious and want to try, or find someone to express their feelings. It starts like playing games. It's very simple.