When a child violates school rules, parents should be able to listen to the teacher's preaching and stand on the united front with the teacher. We should not say bad things about the teacher in front of the children, and we should not overindulge our children. We need to listen carefully to the children's statements. If the child really makes a mistake, we need to carefully manage it.
How do parents deal with children who violate school rules
1. Find out the reason. When the teacher tells the child that he or she has made a mistake at school, parents should first listen carefully to the child's mistake, ask for details, ask the teacher for solutions, talk about their own views, reach an agreement with the teacher, and then thank the teacher for his or her advice, and express that they will fully cooperate with the teacher to correct the child's mistake.
When helping children correct their mistakes, they should communicate with teachers in a timely manner to form a joint force. Don't blow up immediately when you hear the news that your child has made a mistake, and vent your feelings regardless of time and place.
2. Calm down. When the teacher tells the child that he or she has made a mistake at school, parents should choose the right time, encourage the child to tell the story, help the child to analyze the reason for such a mistake, let the child summarize the problem, list the plan for correcting the mistake, give the corresponding ideas to the child's thoughtlessness, supervise the process of the child's error correction, and urge him or her in a timely manner, Timely adjustment.
3. Parents must control their emotions. Some parents report when the head teacher does not agree with their requirements. If parents report, it will ultimately harm the children. Some parents may say, "Is it necessary for me to kowtow to teachers?"? In fact, this is the performance of parents with high emotional intelligence. The cooperation of parents with the class teacher can increase the prestige of the class teacher, which is conducive to the management and education of children in the future. If the needle point is against Mai Mang and the head teacher is working against him, it is really harmful to the students.
4. Take the initiative to take the child to the head teacher to apologize. If your child is really difficult to control the class teacher, you need to calm down and find out the reason why the child has developed to today. Some may be simply the reason of the child's own personality, but many times it is the parents, for example, because they are busy with work and can not control the children, or because they are too indulgent. If so, you need to undertake the child's education, Change your mind, study the methods of child control with the teacher, and manage your children well.
How to deal with children who hate learning
1. Pay attention to children's interests: understand children's interests and hobbies, and integrate these interests into the study, which can stimulate children's learning interest and motivation.
2. Establish learning habits: cultivate children's good learning habits, such as regular review, active thinking, careful notes, etc., which can improve children's learning efficiency and interest.
3. Create a good learning atmosphere: create a quiet, comfortable and conducive learning environment for children, which can make them more focused on learning.
4. Change learning methods: try to change children's learning methods, such as using multiple media, multiple teaching methods, multiple learning resources, etc., which can make children more interested and engaged in learning.
5. Establish reward and punishment mechanism: develop appropriate reward and punishment mechanism to stimulate children's learning interest and motivation. For example, set small goals for children and give them appropriate rewards when they complete them; Criticize children's practices appropriately to help them correct their mistakes and understand the correct code of conduct.
6. Cultivate interest in learning: encourage children to participate in various meaningful activities, such as reading, writing, painting, music, dancing, etc., and stimulate their interest in learning from the aspects they like. At the same time, diversified and interesting ways can also be used in the learning process, such as making cards, game oriented education, etc., so that children can acquire knowledge in play.
How can parents encourage children who encounter setbacks in learning
1. Help children understand their emotions correctly. When children encounter setbacks and difficulties, they may be depressed or even cry bitterly. As parents, we should first let the children vent their emotions, and then help the children to recognize their emotions after the children are calm: "You are very sad, yes, when mom encountered problems as a child, she was also very sad, just like you are now." Correctly guide the children's emotions, Have emotional resonance with children to let them know that it is normal for them to feel sad.
2. Get up where you fall. It is also a way for parents to tell their children that one failure really doesn't mean anything. Only those who dare not try are cowards, and no one wants to be a coward. Therefore, if they want to succeed, they have to pay more sweat. They tell their children that trying again and again is a continuous improvement, not that only the results are good, you are successful, Sometimes the process is also a great experience. You have gained more happiness in the process. You can't deny your sweat and hardships.
