Some children have to teach a lot of knowledge and can't remember it. At this time, some parents will think that children are too stupid to learn. In fact, they are not. Some children just don't master the correct learning methods. Parents must pay attention to observation and help children find appropriate learning methods.
Children are stupid. They can't learn anything
1. For children, every exploration is an opportunity to learn. Parents should let their children actively explore, but do not set too high goals for them. When a person is successful, the brain will release the pleasure hormone "endorphin", which drives the child to repeat this experience. When playing games, doing handwork and doing housework, encourage children to try boldly and guide them moderately.
In the process of children's growth, parents should constantly find their children's progress and let them see their own achievements, so that they can maintain their enthusiasm for the world, exploration and learning, and build self-confidence and make positive progress.
2. Parents should understand their children in a sympathetic way. Every parent wants their children to be excellent, but none of them is born excellent. They grow up and learn slowly to become more and more excellent. Therefore, as parents, we should understand children, no matter what mistakes they make or how bad they do.
3. Encourage more and strike less at children. When children behave badly, they are actually worried about being scolded by their parents. At this time, children expect their parents to encourage them to have more courage to face problems. Therefore, what we should do is to encourage children more and strike children less.
4. Give children the opportunity to try. Under the present exam oriented education, children who do not study well will be said to be stupid and ignored the possibility of having other talents.
What parents need to do is to change the traditional concept of "achievement first", give children more possibilities for development, create opportunities for children to constantly try, and let children discover their potential.
Which educational methods of parents will lead children to become more stupid as they learn
1. Premature knowledge transfer and set high goals for children. Some parents who "aspire to success", with the idea of "not letting their children lose at the starting line" and under the banner of "intellectual development", carry out reading, writing and calculation training for young children prematurely, without considering their children's psychological and IQ development, blindly assign learning tasks, set learning goals, and set high standards and strict requirements for children.
2. It simply requires rote learning and does not guide children to explore by themselves. Most of the time, parents will simply and rudely ask children to "memorize" knowledge points. There is no reason why children do not understand their meaning, so it is quite difficult to recite, especially when the amount of knowledge increases.
3. Just focus on "words and deeds", without "example". Many parents would teach their children to work and rest healthily, read more books and newspapers, but they did not do this themselves. They played computer, watched TV and stayed up late for various recreational activities after work.
It is said that parents are the best teachers for their children. Their behavior directly determines their children's height. If parents do not set a good example for their children, they will lose prestige.
What should children do if they can't learn
1. When the child comes home, let the child retell the textbook first. Maths can ask children to retell examples or recite formulas and theorems that need to be recited. In Chinese, it is better to have a reference book, ask what the text says, dictate words, and recite passages that need to be recited.
2. Children need constant encouragement. This learning process may be a little boring, because these knowledge children have listened to the teacher once in school, and then let him retell that he is likely to despise, or even unwilling.
At this time, parents must be firm in their attitude and control their temper. Even if the child's retelling is bad, they should encourage the child to give feedback in time. Only in this way can the child have the confidence to persevere.
3. Pay close attention to children's wrong questions. The key to the child's progress is that he can understand the knowledge that he did not know before. He is skilled in the original unskilled problem solving process, and to a large extent, the acquisition of this knowledge and ability depends on the repeated practice of right and wrong questions.
Therefore, in the process of accompanying children, parents should learn to guide children to sort out their mistakes. If parents have enough time, they can help children better.
