Twelve year old children have entered a period of youth rebellion. Children in this period are not easy to discipline. Some parents think girls are better than boys. In fact, boys and girls are difficult to control in adolescence, and sometimes girls are even more difficult to control.
How to educate a 12-year-old girl at puberty
1. Parents should learn to look at problems from their children's perspective and understand their children's inner world. Girls will yearn for independence in adolescence. When parents realize that their children have independent ideas, they should not immediately make comments or negative comments. If children have rebellious behaviors, parents can only choose to be considerate of their children and let them try to be independent slowly. When parents guide children properly around, children will feel the pains of their parents.
2. Adolescent children have strong self-esteem, so when a child makes a mistake, parents should not swear at him or take an indifferent attitude when he or she makes a mistake. Instead, they should understand his or her mind in a timely manner, and then solve the problem.
Because the children at this time have already had a sense of autonomy and some unique views and ideas on events and things, they should discuss with the children first when making decisions, and find a good solution through communication with the children.
3. Sincerely communicate with children. When communicating with adolescent children, we must be sincere. The "sincerity" here does not mean that you should be frank about your ideas. It means that you should stand in the child's perspective to understand his ideas, feel his situation, and then from his perspective, say some ideas that can understand the current situation.
4. Parents should pay attention to letting children express their feelings and listen to their voices. Because children in adolescence tend to look at problems and deal with things in an extreme way, parents should pay attention to the right way when expressing love and education, and try to communicate with children.
5. At puberty, children's physiology and psychology are gradually mature. If they are treated in the way of children, their self-esteem will be frustrated. Therefore, we need to change this way. We should communicate with children more to understand their emotional characteristics. When we find that they have problems, we should help them as friends and understand their feelings.
What rebellious behaviors girls will have in adolescence
1. Be interested in strange clothes. Adolescent girls have a vague concept of fashion and begin to have the idea of beauty. They don't like the uniforms issued by the school, but like some strange clothes. So I often see some girls in the street wearing exaggerated clothes, which are out of tune with others and attract many people's attention.
2. Adolescent rebellious children will disagree with their parents or teachers. The expectations and requirements of parents can not be well fulfilled, and the things that parents do not allow will be more comprehensive. During this period, children's attitudes towards family and school are indifferent. And the behavior will be more extreme, often do some excessive behavior or behavior.
3. Most girls in the rebellious period of adolescence are self-centered. Whether in the family or in the school environment, the attitude is to go your own way. I like to make my own decisions in everything. Sometimes I seem to be a little arrogant and don't pay attention to the elders. In the minds of such children, their actions are always right.
When do girls begin puberty
Generally, it is about 12 years old, and it is puberty until the age of 17 or 18. Nowadays, girls develop earlier, and some of them reach puberty when they are about 10 years old. For women, this period of time belongs to adolescence, during which girls become very complex in thought, and also belongs to the period of psychological rebellion.
Girls' puberty generally starts from the age of ten to twelve and ends at the age of seventeen to eighteen. Generally, girls' puberty is a stage of gradually entering adulthood, which starts and ends two years earlier than boys'. Due to individual differences, each girl's puberty starts and ends differently, but generally they are similar.
