Companion is the most loving confession. It is also true for children. When children are young, parents do not need to provide them with good material conditions. Instead, parents need to accompany their children more to make them feel the love of their parents. A good parent-child relationship is the basis for educating children.
The importance of parents to their children's company
1. The company of parents is an important asset in the growth of children. It plays an indispensable role in the establishment of children's interests, the development of their abilities, and the cultivation of their personalities. Companion needs the proximity of parents and children, interaction, emotional exchange, parents' guidance to children to feel the world, children's guidance to understand the world, parents' exploration of children's potential, and parents' cultivation of children's character and ability.
2. Companion will also enable children to have a good relationship of attachment and let them know that when they need you, you will accompany them, so the quality of company is far more important than the length of time. Then, when you accompany a child, you can guide him to face problems and solve them, or even let him learn to deal with them by himself; When interacting with children, parents can understand their children's feelings and thoughts, and also let children see and learn their parents' way of life, not only increasing the opportunities for emotional communication between parents and children, but also improving children's ability in interpersonal interaction.
3. People say that parents are the earliest teachers of children. In fact, parents play a more important role in children's education than they do in school. Parents' education will affect children's life. In the child's character and consciousness formation stage, parents must accompany him or her and spend more time with him or her.
4. Let the children's growth process be full of parents' love. Only in this way can children grow happily and have healthy personality and correct values. In fact, as long as we are together with our children, whatever we do is happy for our children, because there is a home and warmth when parents are around.
Parents need to do the following to accompany their children
1. Parents and children are close to each other and need to interact with each other. This is not just two people sitting there staring at each other. Parents can read storybooks, watch cartoons and play with toys with their children. Even the simplest communication will leave the best mark in children's hearts.
2. Proper praise is conducive to promoting the cultivation of children's skills. Children need praise to strengthen their interest and self-confidence during their growth, and specific and targeted praise may be more effective in developing children's potential talents in some aspects.
3. Don't over restrict children's nature, but correct more. Many times, when children play with toys or draw pictures, there will always be some works that are difficult to understand. But parents should not interfere excessively and deny their children's achievements. The world that children need is an interesting world. Many things that we don't understand contain endless fun in children's eyes. Parents should not limit children's imagination.
What is it like to be a child without company
There is no sense of security. The child is afraid of staying alone, refuses to sleep alone at night, and sticks to his relatives when going out. Parents are often absent, and children are easily insecure. Parents are the source of children's sense of security. As parents, we should always stay with children.
No sense of happiness, home is a happy harbor, but a home must have parents and children. Children who lack the company of their parents usually lack happiness, and their parents stay with their children, so that children will feel happy. Normal physical and mental growth requires a sense of ritual, which will make children more focused and confident.
The inferiority complex in the heart, the growth of early children, has a decisive role in the future character. Especially for 3-6 children, the formation of character at this time will determine what kind of behavior will be handled in the future. A child with an inferiority complex. I always feel that I don't deserve good things, and I will become more sensitive.