Children always play games. Part of the reason is that parents usually have too little company with their children. Because parents are usually busy with their work, they will not have the energy to discipline and accompany their children. They will give their mobile phones to their children. When children have nothing to do, they will naturally choose to play mobile phones. In the long run, they will become addicted.
How to deal with children always playing games
1. Find alternatives to the game. Most parents will encounter strong resistance from their children when they ask their children to stop playing games. It is better to find some activities that can replace games, such as taking their children to watch movies and go to amusement parks. Generally speaking, boys play games mainly in confrontation, because it can excite them. Parents can let their children play basketball, baseball, rock climbing, etc.
2. Let children lose interest in playing games. Parents should not stop their children from playing games every day, which will only make them more addicted to them when they have the chance to play. Instead, they should directly let their children play for 3 to 4 hours in a fixed time period, and they can't leave without playing. At first, the child will be happy for a while, but he will soon lose interest.
3. Let children give up the game on their own initiative. The game itself is designed to make players "addicted", so a lot of reward mechanisms have been set up, such as: the game equipment can be obtained by doing tasks, and the equipment is easier to upgrade. This mode has attracted many children to continue playing. Parents can also do this: prepare a form, if the child can not play games for a day, stick a sticker, and wait for 20 to receive a reward. By analogy, similar reward systems are used to keep children away from games.
4. First of all, parents should set an example by not playing with mobile phones too much in front of their children. A lot of parents are like this. They yell at their children not to play games, but when they get home, they keep their mobile phones in their hands. They watch videos and play games, brush their friends' circles, and practice is better than words. In such an environment, children are still playing with their mobile phones endlessly. How can they persuade children to accept their parents' requirements and do not play with their mobile phones?
The reason why children always play games
1. Look for the reason from the parents. They haven't given enough company to their children. Children's long-term addiction to games is more or less related to their parents' lack of company with their children. From the perspective of psychology, addiction to any virtual thing is an unrealized supplement to reality. Most of the children who are addicted to games are not paid enough attention by their parents, which makes them fail to experience enough care and care.
2. I think the main games can meet the children's sense of achievement and identity. In real life, there will always be all kinds of disappointments. Most of the children who are addicted to games have been hit and criticized in reality and cannot be alleviated. However, they find confidence in the games, and generate vanity that realizes their self-worth. They feel the greatest satisfaction when they become successful in the games.
3. From the perspective of education itself, the essence of education is to teach children how to behave, rather than a machine to complete their studies. Education should make children become mentally healthy people. In the final analysis, children addicted to games just hide in the game world after being disappointed in the outside world. Education itself attaches too much importance to school work and achievement ranking, which makes current children bear the pressure they cannot bear. Some of them get rid of it with the help of their parents or their own efforts, but more children are unable to shackle themselves and can only escape.
How to avoid children's addiction to games
Set an example. The study found that if parents love reading books and newspapers, their children's performance will also be very good. We know that parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. Children will learn from their parents in the process of growing up. Parents often play mobile phones and games in front of their children, and children will follow suit; Compulsory regulations will also be refuted by children: Why can you play, but I can't? Therefore, if children want to treat online games rationally, parents should set an example and create a good living environment for their children.
Help children make plans. People are lazy, adults and children are no exception. But compared with children with insufficient cognition and poor self-discipline, adults are more logical and rational. Therefore, parents should assist children to develop reasonable plans for learning and playing games. If children conscientiously implement the plan, they should be rewarded. This can prevent children from bringing electronic devices into the bedroom, prevent children from playing games before going to bed to damage their eyesight and affect their sleep, and can also use this time to play some small games with children to promote parent-child relationship.