We all like extroverted children, because extroverted children seem confident, good at talking, lively and cheerful. Compared with introverted children, extroverted children are more likely to win the favor of friends. What are the characteristics and performances of extroverted children?
Characteristics and performance of extroverted children
1. Characteristics of extroverted children:
Feature 1: focus on the external environment. When they are in line, they often talk with people around him; When the phone rings, extroverts will run to answer the phone in the first place, while introverts want others to answer the phone.
Characteristic 2: like to answer questions without thinking. In most cases, they will naturally be frank and will not think about things before and after. They are more inclined to speak their thoughts directly and are not used to listening to others.
Feature 3: often like more frequent interaction. Their outgoing and cheerful characteristics determine that they are more talkative people. Keeping frequent communication with others will make them feel extremely happy. In those professions that need to focus on interpersonal relationships, they often see extroverts.
The characteristics of extroverted people are as follows: they can adjust their attitudes and ways of action according to different occasions, keep an eye on the changes of things around them, communicate openly with people who can talk with them, accept others easily, feel uneasy when they are alone, act quickly but not think deeply, and make decisions quickly;
They can quickly adapt to the new environment, often take action without evaluation, like to actively express their concern for others, have no edges and corners in communication with others, are easy to accept, have a wide range of social contacts, have many friends, but are easy to become friends with meat and drink, do not feel uneasy or unfamiliar among people, and like to participate in social activities.
2. Outgoing children's performance:
1) The life attitude is optimistic and positive. Extroverted people often show a positive and optimistic attitude when encountering difficulties and setbacks, and can find a good way to solve problems, so as to solve things with ease.
2) Be good at communicating with others. Extroverted people are good at communicating with others, and can quickly find ways to communicate with others, so as to establish friendly friendship with others faster.
How to deal with the introverted children
1. Actively create opportunities and environment for children to communicate and contact with the outside world. Parents should respect their children's personality. If parents find that their children's introversion is caused by their personality, then we should not rush to correct it, but let the children have a gradual process of adaptation.
Under the condition of respecting the child's will and not being intimidated, let the child slowly take himself out to accept new people and things. If it is affected by the environment, parents should actively create opportunities and environment for children to communicate and contact with the outside world.
2. Encourage and listen to children's ideas. For children, life is full of unknowns and challenges. In the face of these challenges, their self-confidence will always be hit, so the whole person becomes very insecure.
So at this time, parents must comfort and encourage their children, and listen to their children's voices more. Only in this way can children find their own sense of existence slowly, and won't become timid, introverted, and cheerful.
Compared with introverted and extroverted children, who will be more promising when they grow up
Outgoing children: lively and cheerful personality, full of enthusiasm for life, proactive, like to make friends. He is more skillful in dealing with people and has a strong ability to adapt to the new environment.
Introverted children: timid and weak, more or less lack of self-confidence in the heart. Slow, keep everything in mind, do not want to talk, do not want to share emotions.
In my opinion, extroverts are more likely to succeed. Usually strangers who meet for the first time will like the one who takes the initiative and opens a chat with you with a smile. Only when the environment around you is comfortable will you be more likely to succeed and closer to success. So I think extroverts are more promising.
Plutark said: "Character is just a habit formed for a long time." When a child is born, it is a transparent paper. Due to the different environment and education, some people become genius while others become fools. As a minor, the child's self-control ability is not perfect, but the imitation ability is quite excellent. The family is the basis for the child's growth.
In the process of living and educating children, we should have the courage to change our bad personality and be positive and optimistic parents. At ordinary times, children should be praised, appreciated, encouraged, strong, self-confident and other characteristics, so that they can unconsciously integrate into their personality and become a sunny and healthy child.
