It is also normal for children to rebel when they enter adolescence. Parents should be loving, patient, receptive, and guide correctly, neither forcing nor condoning.
How to discipline 15 year old rebels
1. Set clear rules and boundaries. Ensure that there are clear rules and boundaries in the family, so that children can know which behaviors are acceptable and which are unacceptable. At the same time, they should also be given some autonomy and responsibility to learn self-management.
2. Establish a good family atmosphere. Create a warm, supportive and respectful family atmosphere. Encourage family members to understand and respect each other, and actively communicate and solve problems.
3. Provide positive guidance and examples. As a parent or guardian, we should be an active guide and model for our children. Demonstrate positive values and behaviors, and encourage them to set correct goals and values.
4. When disciplining children during the rebellious period, it is necessary to clearly define family rules and boundaries, so that children can know which behaviors are acceptable and which are not. At the same time, we should respect children's independence and opinions, give them proper autonomy, and let them have the opportunity to participate in decision-making.
5. For a rebellious child, you should go into his heart to understand what your child is thinking and create a harmonious family atmosphere for him, so that he can feel the love and care from his parents. In this way, children are more likely to open their hearts to communicate with their parents.
Performance of 15-18 year-old rebellious boys
1. Challenge authority
Due to the growing psychology in the rebellious period, boys are prone to confront their parents, openly challenge their parents and talk too aggressively, and constantly test the bottom line of their parents, go against the education of their parents and teachers, and get tired of the opinions of their elders.
2. Swearing
During the rebellious period, boys are particularly easy to learn to say dirty words, such as: "There is a wool? You know what a fart", or some other dirty words on the Internet.
3. Become very curmudgeonly
They don't like to walk around with their parents any more. They just like to hide in their own room, read books, play games. Sometimes they prefer to be in a daze rather than go out with their parents.
4. Easily annoyed
Sometimes I will lose my temper hysterically because of a very small thing. Often put annoying words in the mouth, always feel their emotions will explode at any time.
5. Good face
In front of classmates, face is bigger than the sky. There are often performances such as "like bragging, like famous brands, like dressing up", and some children learn others' puppy love for the sake of face.
6. More stubborn
During the rebellious period, the boy's emotional reaction was intense, and he had to ask for something no matter how his parents objected to it. Even if parents disapprove of something, they will do it.
Communication skills with rebellious children
1. Listen to children
Such scenes often occur in life. Sometimes the mother is cooking while the child is talking to the mother. Sometimes the mother listens carelessly, and sometimes interrupts the child to ask him to help. In this case, you can give the child a certain time, and it is better to listen to the child immediately. If you always ignore your child, he will lose interest in telling you. When "listening", make eye contact to make your child feel that you are really willing to listen.
2. Don't make fun of children
Children's ideas are different from those of adults. No matter what children say, don't laugh at them unless they are laughing themselves. When a child seriously tells you, your attitude of contempt or disbelief will only hurt the child and will not tell you again. Humor in conversation is good, but you should be careful to use humor to see whether children can understand the difference between humor and teasing.
3. Actively share with children
Of course, parents don't need to express their worries to their children to increase their psychological burden of worry, but sometimes they can take the initiative to share their feelings, feelings, and views on things with their children. Of course, it is easier for children to tell you their feelings, feelings, and views.
4. Use more body language
Eye contact, hand clapping on the child's shoulder, leaning forward slightly to listen to the child's speech, etc. These small movements can encourage the child to express his/her own will. Of course, don't worry. You can expect your child will talk a lot when he sits down. But you can use some natural body language to let him know that you are ready to "talk" with him.
