If a child fails in the exam, parents should not speak harshly to him or her, or put too much emphasis on his or her performance, which will affect his or her learning outlook. We know that children learn not only for the exam, but also to cultivate their learning ability, enrich their knowledge, and not put too much emphasis on the results, which will make the process difficult.
How can parents encourage children who fail in the exam
1. Parents should help build self-confidence. When a child's performance is poor, and parents want to help students reduce pressure, the most important thing is to help children build self-confidence first. Don't ask the child "Can you pass the exam?" "Why are you so much behind", "How can you take the exam so often", and so on. Parents who criticize children blindly may cause their psychological depression. In order to prevent this phenomenon, parents should always give affirmation.
2. Care and encourage children to learn. Every day when the child comes home, he asks the child about his study at school today. Has he answered the teacher's questions in class? Is there any question that he won't? According to the child's answers, he constantly encourages the child to study hard and continue to work hard. If the child did really well that day, we should give him a hug.
3. Reward children appropriately. In fact, it is very important to reward children for their poor performance. It is also the same during school study. If you want to make children achieve a higher level, you may have to choose the way of reward. Every time children's academic performance improves, you can meet a small desire of children. I believe that children will work hard for their own aspirations, Can also test out a good result.
4. Help children analyze causes and find problems. There are several reasons for a child's failure in the exam. One is that the child has poor foundation, the other is that he has not studied hard in the past period, and the third is that he is nervous in the exam, plays abnormally, or is careless. Parents should analyze the reason with their children, and then formulate corresponding countermeasures.
5. Comfort the child's psychology. Parents should tell their children that everyone may fail in the exam. Only by constantly analyzing and correcting mistakes can we make progress. Of course, parents can also use their own examples or those around their children to encourage their children.
6. Don't be so strict with children's study. Don't force children to read too much. It's better to combine work with rest. For example, set the following reading goals. When do you read every day? When can you rest. If you want to improve your performance, you'd better not have too many recreational activities and spend all your time on reading.
What should parents do when children are tardy in learning
1. Use mandatory methods to achieve the goal of changing the action slowly. The parents first estimate the time when the child can complete something to the best of his ability, and then stipulate that the child should complete the task within this time, otherwise he will not continue to do it, and will stop when the time comes. For example, when it's time to eat, you should put away the food and say to the child, "I'm disappointed. I hope you can finish the meal on time next time."
2. The utilization rate of time can also be improved through reasonable arrangement of time. In daily activities, you can set a schedule at home, and parents should also set a good example. According to the schedule, children must be praised in a timely manner.
3. Let the children do it by themselves instead of taking responsibility for them. Consciously cultivate children in life, train them to form timely and efficient habits, more importantly, teach them by example and clearly define rewards and punishments. The time saved by children due to high efficiency will be rewarded for their own disposal, but the consequences of children's procrastination will be borne by them, and parents will not clean up. As time goes by, children will realize the consequences of procrastination, and will not commit old habits again.
Children are careless in learning. How can we educate them
First, we should urge children to develop good learning habits. Let children listen carefully, take notes, complete homework, and develop the good habit of checking and checking.
Secondly, through the guidance of parents and teachers, we can tell children to be patient and careful, spend more time studying problems, and constantly improve their learning methods, so as to improve the efficiency and quality of children's learning. In a word, let children form good habits, cultivate good mentality and methods from an early age, and believe that children will gradually overcome the problem of carelessness in learning.
