The parents' emotions will affect the children's emotions under certain circumstances, especially the father's frequent violent children, which will not only damage the children's hearts, but also set a bad example for the children to learn to deal with problems with violence, which is not conducive to the children's character building.
What will happen to a child whose father is ferocious
1. Affects the child's character. If parents often yell at their children, their children will be frightened, and some will even make them excited. Just like cousin who often yells and scolds Qiangqiang, Qiangqiang is also very introverted and timid. For such a long time, Qiangqiang's personality will gradually become inferiority complex, which will also make Qiangqiang unable to concentrate because of fear of being scolded, which is not conducive to children's concentration.
2. Affect children's independent consciousness. Children whose parents are too strong will become cowardly, which is very common in life. If parents often yell, children will not dare to think about problems on their own initiative, let alone express their true thoughts. In the long run, he will easily develop the habit of relying on his parents, thus lacking the ability of independence, which will have a serious impact on his future life and work.
3. Affects children's communication ability. Children who are often scolded by their parents tend to lack self-confidence. In future interpersonal communication, they will not know how to get along with others better and find appropriate ways to communicate with others. Many children who are often scolded by their parents are usually silent and speak less, which makes it difficult for them to expand their social circle. As time goes by, friends will become fewer and fewer.
4. Influence the relationship between parents and children. If parents often yell at their children, they will feel that their parents do not love them, and they will feel hurt. When things happen to children. They are unwilling to tell their parents. As time goes by, the relationship between parents and children will be further. Especially when children are in adolescence, children are in a rebellious period. If parents still use the way of yelling to discipline their children, this will worsen the relationship between parents and children.
The father is cruel to the child, which may cause the child to have two personality defects
1. Children who are often yelled at by their parents tend to form a fawning personality. In particular, parents often tell them: "I don't want you anymore, they will lose their sense of security, start to please their parents, bind their own nature, and become the children their parents want. They will not tell their parents about the pressure, but just become the children their parents want.", Parents will not find their psychological problems.
2. The rebellious mentality is serious. Parents often yell at their children, which can easily lead to their children being very rebellious. They deliberately fight against their parents. Especially when teenagers are yelled at by their parents, they will become particularly rebellious, and they may even take a detour.
How should parents educate their children correctly?
Parents yell at their children for a long time, which is likely to cause their children's character defects. Although yelling at children is also for the sake of children, parents should understand children more, be more patient, and guide children patiently.
Parents should respect their children's feelings. When a child makes a mistake, first of all, don't yell and scold the child. Parents should calm down first, calm down the child's emotions, then slowly guide the child to tell the reason for the mistake, and then work with the child to find a solution to the problem. Get along with children in the way of friends and treat children equally.
Many parents are very irritable, which will directly affect the children's psychology and make the children become very emotional. This may enable children to solve problems in a violent way like their parents in the future. When the children grow up and become parents, they will also educate their children in the way their parents treated them. Therefore, as parents, as adults, parents should behave more mature and prudent, and understand their own emotional management.
