The son scolds his parents. As a parent, he should calm down and not beat and scold his children. Our goal is to teach children to respect others. If our parents can't respect their own children, how can children learn to respect others? Therefore, we should be good at ourselves before educating our children, and then we should ask them.
What should I do if my son scolds his parents
1. Family members should respect each other. Parents should respect grandparents, and husband and wife should respect each other. If parents show contempt and disrespect for other families, it is easy to affect children. Children will imitate this attitude of parents, and it is more likely to show disrespect for elders.
2. Be critical of children's offenses. When a child does something that offends the elders, the parents must not ignore it and indulge the child's behavior, which will only encourage the child's bad habits.
When a child has offensive behavior, parents must show their dissatisfaction or even anger at the first time, which will leave a deep impression on the child and let the child know that their behavior has hurt the parents. Next time, do not dare to do so easily, and do not condone the child.
3. Let children learn to be grateful. In daily life, parents should let their children know how to express their gratitude to others in a timely manner, which is recognition and respect for others. For example, parents can thank the waiter for serving a bowl of noodles in front of their children. Through these life details, let children learn to be grateful and respect.
4. Education and communication. Let children learn to control themselves. Parents should persist in communicating with their children about respect and establish rules. Young children have poor self-control, which requires parents to make rules.
First, parents should communicate with their children for a long time, understand the specific reasons why children do not respect their parents, and educate them. Secondly, parents should set an example for their children and respect their children's choices. When there is disagreement, calm down and give the child a good explanation.
5. Creating a family environment of equal concern is the major prerequisite for good education. A harmonious family atmosphere will enable children to feel the care from their parents from an early age, so that children will know that parents also need others' care, thus helping children to develop from learning to care for parents to caring for others. Family members must respect each other. First of all, it is important for children to feel that their parents are equal.
What should parents pay attention to when educating their children
1. Parents should have a sense of identity, and let children know that parents not only provide them with food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also have the right to restrain and correct their bad habits. Parents should use simple and clear language when asking their children to complete certain things.
2. Let children learn to speak with respect. Most children feel guilty or even afraid after contradicting their parents. Therefore, when children show disrespect for their parents, parents should stop them in time, so that children can understand the impact of their own behavior on others.
3. The children's imitation is very strong. Parents should set an example in daily life and show their children how to respect others. Parents should let children know that showing gratitude is a way to show respect for others.
How can parents manage the son's rebellion
No child is born rebellious. First of all, parents should reflect on what they did not do enough, whether they did not care enough about their children, or whether they did not respect their children in their daily life. When children grow up, they should have their own ideas. Parents should learn to listen to them, rather than just ask them how to do, they should communicate as much as friends, and talk about their children's hearts.
Secondly, in many cases, parents must detach themselves from their own roles and observe children's rebellion from the perspective of a third party. And treat children from different perspectives and make limited accommodation. Anxious parents should remind themselves to stay calm and wait for their children to calm down before communicating.
Finally, parents should think in terms of their children, treat problems from the perspective of children, and blame and criticize less. Spend more time to accompany and understand, learn to make friends with children, and feel estranged and difficult to communicate. You can observe at ordinary times to find out which suitable entry points to use as topics, give appropriate space, patiently enlighten, enter the child's heart, understand him, help him, and guide him.