Parents often complain that the child is nine years old, but still has no interest in learning. In class, he always does not listen to the class, either talking or being in a daze. Parents and teachers preach many times, but the child does not listen. At this time, parents must take timely measures to help the child.
What to do if a 9-year-old child does not listen to class
1. Cultivate children's self-control. First, change some of the children's learning habits, and don't rush to start from their academic achievements. Cultivate children's self-control, so that children can control themselves when learning, rather than learning and playing when they want to.
2. Train children's concentration. Concentration requires a long time and patient training. It can let children learn a chess skill, which tests people's concentration. Children can train their concentration by learning chess, which is helpful for learning.
Parents can develop their children's ability to read books from an early age. Children who are not paying attention are generally associated with the habit of not reading and reading cartoon books with pictures. In particular, parents should cultivate the habit of fast reading, guess the meaning of the words they don't know with the help of the context, and train their children to recite the story after reading.
3. Understand why children don't listen. Children also remember to hate others. Don't think that children don't understand anything when they are young. In fact, children can distinguish who they like from who they hate. Sometimes children don't like listening to lectures because they simply don't like the teacher.
When encountering this kind of thing, parents must ask why the children don't like the teacher, whether it is their own reason or the teacher's reason. If it is the children's own reason, let the children control their own emotions. Don't be upset because the teacher criticizes them.
4. Tell children the skills of listening carefully. After children have a plan and concept of listening carefully, parents should also tell children what the skills of listening carefully are. Only when children understand and feel the importance of the process can they achieve the efficiency of listening carefully through the process.
How to educate children if they are not careful in class
1. Teachers and parents should communicate well. Children often make small movements and do not listen to the teacher in class. It is better to arrange the children to the front so that the teacher can pay more attention to the children. Teachers should pay more attention to students at ordinary times, and parents and teachers should also communicate with each other about their children in a timely manner.
2. The act of accepting children. If children don't listen carefully in class, there must be their own reasons. Parents and teachers can communicate with children and listen to their ideas. When a child encounters difficulties, parents can work together with the child to solve them, help the child to create a good learning environment, and give the child a full sense of security.
3. Pay attention to children's small progress. If children have made progress on the original basis, even if they have made some progress, they should also be appreciated, so that children will have more motivation to study seriously and make greater progress.
The reason why children can't listen in class
1. Children are mentally thinking about other things. What parents don't know is that there are so many things in the hearts of small children. Sometimes it is external factors that affect children's psychology, and more often it is family factors.
"My parents quarreled again yesterday" and "Why does my mother always lose her temper with me recently?" Many behaviors of parents will be remembered by children. Parents may think that their children will forget them after a while, but in fact, children will keep thinking about these things until their children find the satisfactory answers.
2. Parents play with their children's mobile phones, destroying their children's concentration. Many parents will supervise their children to do their homework, but when it comes to specific actions, it is like this: children rush to write at their desks, while parents sit or lie in bed, holding mobile phones or tablets in their hands, painting TV dramas. This behavior of parents is the biggest killer of destroying children's concentration.
3. The child didn't have a good rest. If you don't get enough rest the day before, you will certainly have no energy to study the next day. Generally speaking, the best sleep time for children around ten years old is about nine hours, but at present, it seems that seven hours is a good time for children to really sleep. The extra two hours are usually occupied by various remedial classes and interest classes.
