The child's exam results are not good, and the child is already very sad. If parents blame the child at this time, it will not only hurt the child's self-confidence, but also hurt the child's enthusiasm for learning. Parents should calm their children's emotions and encourage them to have confidence to improve. So, how can we encourage children to do poorly in exams?
How to encourage children with poor exam results
1. Control your emotions and look at the scores from a different perspective. When we are faced with a report card that is not particularly ideal, we can try to replace a slightly cold and heartless score with a warm language assessment content, such as the most commonly used "excellent, good, satisfied" and so on. As long as the child can achieve the "satisfied" score, we should not be too obsessed with the child's low score.
If the children's performance can not even achieve "satisfaction", then parents should focus on the children's learning habits, learning ability, learning interest and other related issues in addition to well controlling their emotions.
Only in this way can we help children effectively. If parents still can't treat scores correctly, it's better to postpone discussing scores and learning issues with children until they can communicate with children calmly.
2. Don't compare children with children from other families. Many parents put the comparison between their children in words, which is actually very harmful to their children. Their children's self-esteem will be greatly damaged, and even may be jealous. Why are other children always so good, so bad, and jealous of their excellence.
There are many different ways for parents to educate their children, but they should never educate their children by comparison. This way will do great harm to children.
3. If you don't give up, you will have more choices. My child, the reason why I don't give up now is to have more choices in the future. Children's poor exam results may not mean that they can't learn. It may be that they don't like that subject, especially math. It seems very boring to learn Kobe from other students. Many children are not interested in learning.
Some children will ask their parents: "Mom, I don't like learning math, can I not learn it?" At this time, our parents' response and guidance are extremely important. Smart parents will say, "Son, I know you don't like it, but you can't stop learning. Only by crossing the road you don't like, can you win the world you like."
Reasons for children's poor exam results
1. Not paying attention in class. The most important thing to improve academic performance is to concentrate on class. In the 45 minutes of class, the children will have a solid foundation only after they learn it well. Just like building a house, the foundation is the most important. If you don't take classes seriously, no matter how many lessons children make up or how late they go home to study, it is putting the cart before the horse.
2. Not careful with homework. Doing homework carefully is an important part of checking students' achievements in class. There are several elements in homework writing: careful reading, thinking hard, concentrating on the problem and going back to check. Develop a good habit of doing homework, so that we can find the place where children haven't learned well by doing homework. It is not too late to mend the wounds.
3. No fun to learn. A great part of the reason for children's lack of learning motivation is that they did not realize the fun of learning. Many students feel that learning is a forced thing, or they learn for their parents. Whether adults or children, when doing something passively, their subjective initiative will be very poor. Just like driving, a car can't be driven far without a motor.
How to improve children's exam scores if they are not good
Management by Objectives. The first step is to set a good goal if you want to improve your academic performance. Parents may wish to set goals for the next exam together with their children, list detailed implementation plans, and then let the children practice one by one. With goals, children will have a way forward.
We should not only listen carefully in class, but also work hard before and after class. It's better to preview before class. You should have a general understanding of the content of the next lesson. If you understand what you don't understand, you should focus on listening to the teacher's explanation. After class, combine with class notes, summarize the knowledge that the teacher taught in class, summarize the framework of the knowledge, and then do relevant exercises.
Reasonably arrange learning time. Most people believe that as long as you study hard, you will get high scores, and you should persist even when you are tired. Don't stay up late, even for learning. The pressure generated by the night you stay up will be returned to you in various forms the next day. There are physical reasons and more psychological reasons, so don't stay up late easily.
