When many children enter junior high school from primary school, they will not be able to adapt to the learning in junior high school, which will lead to learning failure. When parents find such a situation for the first time, they must take timely measures to guide children, and do not let the situation of children get worse, otherwise it will seriously affect children's learning.
What to do if the child is not in the state
1. Guide children to learn to tell. When you are restless and worried about exams, you might as well tell your feelings and let others share with you. A loyal audience can help you reduce the depression caused by tension. In addition, you can also write a letter about your feelings, and then throw it aside to give yourself some "worry" time to solve it later. Never be depressed in your heart, so that the pent up emotions will grow and eventually worry will become ill.
2. Adjust understanding. We should adjust our incorrect understanding of the exam, eliminate our worries and enhance our confidence. The exam is no different from the previous big and small exams, on the contrary, it is more scientific, objective and fair. Generally speaking, as long as you are well prepared, there is no problem in getting good grades. There is no need to consecrate them and worry about them all day long.
3. Set up a concept of lifelong learning and lifelong struggle for children. When children face high intensity examinations, homework and extracurricular classes every day, they will feel tired, bored, even disgusted, and feel why only they are "so unlucky". In fact, at this age, parents should set up a philosophy of study, hard work and struggle for their children. Children should not feel helpless and unwilling because they think that the current efforts are a punishment of parents or a task that must be completed.
4. Relax in a proper way. Don't be in a hurry to put pressure on children. We all know that school is a bit stressful after all, but even so, there is no need to put pressure on children at once. It will be more natural and get twice the result with half the effort to help children enter the state step by step.
5. Let children take proper exercise. Nowadays, more and more children do not like sports. They either play mobile phones or sleep late during holidays. Lack of sports is more likely to make children depressed. There are many sports that children can do during the holidays, such as jogging, playing badminton, skipping, etc. In addition, parents can also go for a walk in the park with their children after dinner, or visit relatives and friends to organize parent-child game competitions to feel the charm of sports.
What parents should do when children in junior high school have no initiative in learning
1. Create a family atmosphere suitable for children's learning. Severe atmosphere is not suitable for brain thinking. Learning is a brain activity. If the brain is in fear and panic, it is impossible to have a positive state. Brain use needs a relaxed environment.
Some parents stood by while their children were doing their homework. When their children made a slight mistake, they would scold them or even slap them in the face. This tense atmosphere makes children afraid, and their brain thinking is severely inhibited and disturbed, which seriously hinders their learning.
2. Urge children to learn to avoid nagging. In the process of parents' nagging and accusing, children can never have a positive, happy and progressive mood, and it is difficult to think consciously and positively. The parents' nagging, constant urging and scolding make the family atmosphere tense, make the children nervous, unable to get relaxed and quiet, and affect learning. As a parent, learn to make a long story short, and don't say anything unnecessary.
The children are not adapted to the "junior high school". Take these coping strategies to quickly cope with junior high school learning
1. Learn to review before class. Many students and parents attach great importance to class time, but often students and parents always ignore the importance of preview before class. In fact, preview before class is a preparation stage for students to learn every day. It is mainly because preview can understand the content and knowledge that the teacher will talk about the next day in advance, and can also find the focus of the teacher's lecture in advance.
2. Listen attentively in class. Listening carefully in class is not only a problem that the teacher is worried about, but also a problem that parents will worry about. They are afraid that their children will not listen carefully in class. They are always distracted when the teacher is lecturing, and they are also afraid that the children will not understand the teacher's problems in class. In fact, there are many such students in the classroom, Therefore, this is also the reason why many students' academic achievements decline rapidly.
