After girls enter puberty, there will be ups and downs in their emotions. Once innocent and clever girls may become anxious and rebellious for no reason. Therefore, if parents want to change their education methods in advance and guide adolescent girls correctly, they must first understand how old girls are in puberty?
How old is puberty for girls
Girls' puberty generally starts from the age of 10 to 12, and usually ends at the age of 17 to 18.
Adolescence of girls refers to the stage of transition from children to adults. Generally, girls begin and end puberty two years earlier than boys. Most girls' puberty is between 10 and 18 years old. Due to individual differences, the beginning and end times of puberty are different for each girl.
Adolescent girls will be very sensitive and may not be able to adapt to physical changes. It is suggested that parents should do a good job of health education and psychological counseling in girls' adolescence, so that children can correctly cope with the physiological changes in adolescence. More attention should also be paid to children's nutrition and health problems, eat less greasy and spicy food, and eat more fresh fruits and vegetables to supplement vitamins.
During adolescence, children's hormone secretion is relatively strong, so their emotions fluctuate relatively large. And with the growth of children's age and psychological and mental maturity, children will quickly enter the growth time. In this period, the development of human beings from children to adults is predictable, but what will happen or problems in the development process is unpredictable.
The correct method of adolescent education for girls
1. Learn to make friends with children, and do a good job in adolescent education. Now the society is developing, and the old ideas about adolescent education need to be changed. If possible, parents and children can watch books and documentaries on adolescent education together, and explain to children. I hope that only in this way can girls really understand adolescence.
2. Adolescent daughters are sensitive, and parents should criticize them properly. Don't talk about everything. Correctly guide children's vanity. Be good at discovering their advantages, and lose no time in praising them, and actively support their good work; There are some important aspects that need to be corrected. The best answer is to guide them how to be good.
3. Learn to look at problems from the perspective of children and understand their inner world. Girls will yearn for independence in adolescence. When parents realize that their children have independent ideas, they should not immediately make comments or negative comments. If children have rebellious behaviors, parents can only choose to be considerate of their children and let them try to be independent slowly. When parents guide children properly around, children will feel the pains of their parents.
The Causes of Girls' Rebellion in Adolescence
1. I didn't grasp the time to discipline my children. We should discipline our children as early as possible. We should never think that the child is still young and has done something wrong, so we should take sides. This will only make the child form bad habits. Parents should correct their children's rebellious psychology as soon as possible and help their children go back to the right path.
2. Parents' cognitive errors. Due to the improper way of parents' education. Lack of common psychological knowledge, eager to succeed in children's education, simple and crude methods, often ignoring children's self-esteem and psychological endurance. Especially when children make mistakes, education is very strict, even beat and scold children, which is easy to arouse children's rebellious psychology.