In life, we often see some children who are more "Buddhist" in learning, and often view their academic achievements with a indifferent attitude. The reason why children have this mentality is that they lose interest in learning, so as parents, we must take appropriate ways to actively guide.
Children don't care about their grades
1. Parents should set an example for their children. The family is the first school in a child's life, and the parents are the first teachers of the child. Every move of the parents will become the imitation of the child. Parents should create a warm and harmonious growth environment for their children, set an example everywhere, and influence their children with their own good behavior habits.
Children are very imitative. If parents show laziness in their life, don't like reading and studying at ordinary times, and don't want to make progress in work, they will naturally have a indifferent attitude towards their study life and work.
2. We should broaden his interests. Children don't care about their academic achievements, so you can open up some hobbies for them. To find out what a child likes to do, when he likes to do something, he should cultivate his interest.
When a child is interested in doing something, his concentration will be particularly high. As his concentration becomes higher and higher, he will pay special attention to everything and improve his academic performance.
3. Praise more to enhance children's self-confidence. As a parent education, children should focus on positive encouragement, and never criticize or criticize children blindly. Usually, if you find the advantages of children, you should praise them in time to help them build self-confidence and make them feel great. As the closest person to children, don't be stingy with your praise. When parents give more affirmation and praise, children's bad habits gradually disappear.
4. Parents should guide their children's thinking. Children don't care about their academic achievements, because parents don't give good guidance. You must tell your child how important learning is to his future life. If a parent can guide his children's thoughts, he will follow his parents' thoughts to think about everything when he does anything.
5. Control his study time. Children don't care about their academic achievements. They must control their learning time and let them learn more. As a parent, we must pay close attention to his study time and make a study plan for him, so as to improve his academic performance.
Why children don't care about their grades
1. The children's performance has been at the bottom of the class for a long time, and they have long been indifferent to learning, and even more insensitive to scores: anyway, they are just fooling around, and what they are like.
2. The children think that their performance is OK, but there is a certain gap between them and their parents' expectations. Therefore, parents think that their children's performance is not good, and the children have no higher pursuit, leading to no ambition in learning.
3. The children may not have bad grades before, but they may be criticized by teachers or parents because of their poor performance in school. Many times of criticisms have cast a shadow on the children's psychology. They feel that everyone does not like them, so they break the jars and do not take their studies seriously, resulting in poor academic performance.
4. Children think that scores are not important and it doesn't matter how many tests they take, especially in normal tests, scores are even less important.
How should parents exert a subtle influence on their children from life
1. Children are unique. Parents should not compare children. Every child has his own shining point, but also his own shortcomings. These differences make them more distinctive and therefore have different charm.
When parents compare the advantages of their children with those of others, their children will feel inferior. Such behavior will not only hurt the child's self-confidence in learning, but also make him lose interest in learning.
2. It is better to start from cultivating good habits to lower the requirements for children's performance. Parents often ask their children to give up their mobile phones and computers and concentrate on their studies. Imagine what you would think if someone didn't let you play with your mobile phone, but played beside you? Everyone must be unconvinced, because those who say the rules do not comply with the rules.
The best way is to set a good example for children by not playing with mobile phones and computers at home. While cultivating habits, don't care too much about children's achievements. As long as the regular learning habits are formed, achievements are only a matter of time.
