Children should use mobile phones in a proper way. If parents do not guide their children to use mobile phones in advance, it will certainly bring harm to children. Usually, we should pay attention to online education for children, accompany them more, cultivate their healthy interests, and create a good atmosphere for learning at home.
What are the hazards of children playing with mobile phones
1. Affects vision. Long term incorrect use of electronic products will damage children's vision development. At present, the myopia rate of teenagers in our country is close to 60%, so we must pay full attention to it. When using electronic products, you must pay attention to the control of posture and time.
2. Dependence and addiction. This is the disadvantage that parents and friends fear most. Some children will rely on the Internet to search for questions when doing homework, which makes them lose the ability to think actively and take shortcuts instead of making efforts. Some children will become addicted to mobile phone games, stay up late to play and do not write homework, so their grades are doomed to plummet and hurt their health.
In order to prevent this, parents must participate in, supervise and control early, and must control before "dependence" and "addiction". Encourage children to think actively and guide them to be happy after their efforts; Take more children to participate in outdoor sports, and let them be released in sweat.
3. It is not conducive to the establishment of interpersonal relationships. Children who are addicted to mobile phones are full of dependence on the virtual world, and may show withdrawn, confrontational and other personalities in real society, which is not conducive to the establishment of real interpersonal relationships and communication development. Parents should create a rich interpersonal circle and range of activities for children, so that children can fully feel the temperature and diversity of real life.
4. Security issues. There are various deceptive means on the Internet specifically for children, with children with weak defense ability as the main target. Children are often deceived and dare not tell their parents. The fraudsters often succeed. Parents should pay attention to the network security education for their children.
5. Affects bone development. Children are growing up and their bones are developing. If you often watch your mobile phone, you will have cervical problems and hunchback.
6. Affects learning. Children often play with mobile phones, which will distract them. Gradually, they will not be interested in learning, and their performance will naturally decline.
Children are obsessed with how to teach by playing mobile phones
1. Don't scold children and stop playing with mobile phones. Applying pressure will only produce adverse feelings and make the situation develop in the opposite direction.
2. Give time for play and time for study. You can agree with your child on the time for playing mobile phones, such as playing for an hour every day, and then learning. Let the child return the mobile phone after the specified time. If children return their mobile phones on time, they should be encouraged. If they do not return their mobile phones on time, they should be punished. The punishment measures should be discussed with the children, and the principle is that the children accept them voluntarily.
3. Parents should create a good learning atmosphere and not play with mobile phones while their children are studying. Parents should read more books by themselves, tell stories to their children, attract their children's attention to extracurricular books, and gradually introduce their children into the ocean of knowledge.
4. Parents' company. There is no more effective way to correct this shortcoming than the companionship of parents. During the formative period of a child's character and habits, parents should do a good job of interacting with their children. At the same time, parents should set an example. Don't hold your mobile phone in your hand all day long, but tell your child to stay away from it. Being a good example is much more effective than preaching.
How to guide children not to be obsessed with mobile phones
1. An environment needs to be created. What kind of soil will produce what kind of fruit, so first parents should create a good environment for their children. To prevent children from playing with mobile phones, parents must set an example. In the presence of children at home, parents should not play with mobile phones. Even if they really need to work, they should also explain clearly to children or try to avoid children.
2. Cultivate children's healthy interests and hobbies. The reason why children are obsessed with mobile phones is that they lack other interests and hobbies. Parents need to help children develop some interests and hobbies to divert their attention.
3. Spend more time with children and interact with them. One reason why children are obsessed with mobile phones is that they lack enthusiasm and vitality for life due to the lack of life content. Parents can communicate more with their children, play games with them, take them to outdoor travel, etc. Expand their horizons and let them find more wonderful things in life.