With the popularity of mobile phones, every parent is very worried about the decline of their children's performance after playing with mobile phones. In fact, many children will suffer from their addiction to mobile phones. Therefore, parents must pay attention to guiding their children to prevent their children's performance from declining due to some factors.
How to communicate with children when their grades decline
1. Talk to the child. After finding out the reason for the decline of the child's performance, it's time to have a good conversation. Call the children together, talk with them, find out the problem points, find the disease nodes, ask the children's thoughts, understand the children, grasp the key points, and maintain communication with the children to find a good way to improve their performance.
2. Timely find out whether the child is a deviant subject. Once a student deviates from his or her major due to some factors, he or she will spend a lot of time trying to correct the deviation. If he or she does not pay attention to it, he or she will lose the whole game. Parents should pay attention to the child's changes at home, and take the initiative to contact the teacher when the child has problems, so that the teacher can understand the child's learning situation, psychological changes and emotional fluctuations at home, and give timely help and guidance.
3. Help the child reposition. It is necessary to help children realize that the "performance decline" they encounter is the common feeling of many school-age children. The temporary backwardness of academic performance does not mean that you are going backwards. It may be because the environment has changed and the scope of competitive comparison has changed.
How to deal with the decline of children's performance in playing mobile phones
1. Parents should play a role model. Example is better than word. Parents' love of learning is the greatest encouragement. Children who grow up in a strong learning atmosphere tend to have a strong interest in learning. But if parents play with mobile phones every day, children must be the same as their parents, so parents and children learn together. Children have poor self-discipline. They should pay more attention to their learning, understand their homework and help correct their mistakes in time.
2. Appoint time for children to play mobile phones. Children have poor self-control. Parents can set a time for playing games every day. We should also control the environment. Some family mobile phones are idle, and children can play at any time. If the mobile phone does not appear in the child's view, the child must apply to the parents to use the mobile phone.
3. Learn to distract children. Many children addicted to mobile games, the ultimate reason is mostly from their parents. Maybe the young children were exposed to mobile phones and other electronic devices early in order to appease their emotions. Try to divert children's attention through other ways, encourage children to participate in collective activities, communicate with peers, participate in outdoor activities, expand children's interests, and cultivate children's lively and cheerful personality and good health.
4. Parents should be firm. When parents have begun to implement the rules for children to play with mobile phones, their attitude must be firm! If children break the rules, punishment must be done. It is not allowed to let children fall into the world of mobile phone games because of temporary soft heartedness and indulgence, and then become divorced from reality.
5. Respect your child's wishes. Respect children's interest in playing games. I think children should combine work with rest, and reasonably allocate time to play games on the premise of completing learning tasks. To be fair, playing games can really relieve pressure, and to a certain extent, it can exercise people's hand brain coordination. It is absolutely necessary to give children a certain time to play games.
Reasons for the decline of children's performance
1. Parents who lose their temper will put pressure on their children. Angry parents may also love their children, but they just don't have patience. Children growing up in this family environment will worry about not doing well when they are doing homework or in class, and worry about their parents losing their temper at the same time.
Such children tend to work hard, but they cannot achieve excellent results. Therefore, if parents want their children to learn well, they should first reflect on themselves, whether they have temper tantrums, and don't always look for reasons on the children.
2. The demands on children are too high. Many parents pay too much attention to their children and have too high expectations and requirements for their children, which are irrational love for their children. This kind of irrational love will be the enemy of the most powerful force in the child's heart - the power of growth, which will block the child's steps and bind the child's mind.
