If a child wants to transfer from high school, parents should not scold the child or agree to help the child transfer immediately. It is suggested that parents should ask why the child wants to transfer, find out the reason why the child wants to transfer, and help enlighten the child. If it is really necessary to transfer, follow the procedure.
What should I do if my child wants to transfer to another high school
Procedures required for transfer to high school:
1. The student or student guardian submits the transfer application to the Academic Affairs Office of the school. The application is very important and needs a good reason for the school to agree.
2. The student or student guardian shall hold the "Transfer Contact Form" stamped with the official seal of the receiving school, issue the "Transfer Certificate" to the original school, and handle the transfer procedures.
3. High school is not compulsory education, which requires teaching fees, so it needs money.
4. The school will test the academic level of the transfer students. If the school agrees to accept the transfer students after the test, it will stamp the official seal of the school on the "Transfer Contact Form".
5. Students who have registered permanent residence in this city but are studying abroad and request to be transferred back to this city shall be handled according to the method of transferring students from other places.
6. Graduates generally do not transfer. Students are not allowed to transfer during the suspension period.
7. The transfer school shall issue a transfer receipt after the transfer of students, send it to the transfer out school, and then the transfer out school shall provide the student status file.
However, it should be noted that:
Parents should find out the motivation of high school children's strong demand for transfer. Ask why the child transferred to another school, and whether he was bullied or unhappy in school.
If the child is unable to adapt to the change of interpersonal relationship mode. After finishing junior high school life and entering high school with an exaggerated ego, most children will be at a loss. In addition, problems such as heavier learning tasks and more severe teachers may lead children to want to transfer to the school where their junior high school friends are located to solve their own difficulties.
In the face of such a situation, the most important thing for parents is not to easily agree to their children's transfer requirements. Children always think that everything will be better if they change schools and start again. Most of them can't see their own problems and can't adapt to the changes in interpersonal communication mode, so they constantly put forward transfer requirements.
How to deal with high school children who don't want to go to school
1. Positive communication and exchange are needed. When you are especially unwilling to go to school, many negative emotions may appear, such as depression, irritability, or perceived pressure and heavy learning burden. At this time, you should timely confide these negative problems to your family and teachers, and learn to seek help and support from your family.
At any time, encouragement and tolerance from family members are an important source of support and security. Only by increasing interpersonal interaction can negative emotional problems caused by loneliness and loneliness be alleviated.
2. Actively pacify the children and avoid trying to persuade them. Parents should be patient with their children, tell them what is the use of going to school, what is the benefit for their future development, and let them know that going to school is an interesting thing.
High school parents can ease the pressure on some children's learning, let their children go to school in a relaxed and happy mood, and don't give them too many requirements on learning for the time being, so that their children will not feel oppressive to go to school, and appropriately relax their mood.
How to deal with the poor learning of high school children
1. We need to seriously summarize the problems in our high school career, find the reasons and solve them. For example, learning methods may be incorrect, lack of concentration, or lack of self-discipline, which needs to be adjusted in time. At the same time, they can actively develop their own interests and hobbies, participate in social practice activities, and achieve all-round development. This will help improve the overall quality and competitiveness, and increase self-confidence and belief.
2. Let children not be too anxious and self blaming, balance their studies and life, and constantly improve their comprehensive quality and ability. Achievement is one of the important criteria to measure a person, but it is not the only factor that determines his destiny.
Pay attention to the combination of work and rest, give yourself some leisure time, read extracurricular books, do outdoor sports, develop healthy living habits, and cultivate good interest in life.
