When children enter high school, their learning difficulty will increase and the learning atmosphere will become more intense, which will make many children unable to keep up with their studies or under great pressure. When children don't want to go to school and are tired of school, parents must communicate well with their children to ease their emotions and help them reduce their burden.
What should I do if I am tired of school and don't want to go to school
1. Explore the root cause of the problem
Parents need to understand why students don't want to go to school and find out the root cause of the problem. This may require a frank dialogue with children and listening to their thoughts and feelings.
Sometimes, students may face academic difficulties, such as difficult to understand courses, examination pressure, etc., which will lead them to feel depressed about the school. In addition, social problems, family problems or mental health problems may also be the reasons for not wanting to go to school.
2. Provide support and encouragement
No matter what the root of the problem is, students need to feel the support and encouragement from their families and schools. Parents and teachers can encourage students to express their feelings, understand their difficulties, and provide help. Sometimes, students may just need a listener who can share their worries and fears.
3. Develop goals and plans
What should we do if the senior one students are tired of learning and don't want to go to school? It is vital that we can help students re-establish their interest and motivation in learning. One way is to help them set clear learning goals and plans. This can help students feel directional and motivated, know why they want to go to school and what goals to achieve.
4. Provide diversified learning experience
Another way is to provide a variety of learning experiences to make learning more interesting. This can include participation in extracurricular activities, field trips, projects or interest classes. By engaging students in activities of interest, we can stimulate their enthusiasm for learning.
What is it about high school children being bored with school
1. Self relaxation
Many high school students go through a lot of hardships to enter high school. After receiving the admission notice, they think they have entered the safe for college entrance examination, and relax themselves, resulting in academic performance not keeping up, which leads to weariness.
2. Psychological immaturity
Because the physiological and mental development of high school students is not mature, and the campus and parents give too much pressure, high school students show some changes in mood and behavior. Growing up in today's severe exam oriented education, high school students have less free space, which leads to no communication, and they suppress difficulties in all aspects in their hearts, resulting in introversion and attention deviation, which leads to weariness.
3. Too much learning burden and pressure
There is no need to hide the great pressure and burden of learning for senior high school students nowadays. A serious senior high school student spends no less than 12 hours a day studying. This pressure and burden is really inappropriate for senior high school students who are in the period of physiological and mental development.
4. Psychological frustration
After losing in the competition, such children still work hard like junior high school students, but they are helpless because of the number of experts in key high schools. They are frustrated repeatedly in the cruel competition. Finally, he was defeated and had the idea of giving up, so his weariness of learning came into being.
How do parents encourage senior one children
1. Establish good communication channels
In the higher stage, it is very important to establish good communication channels with children. Parents should respect their children's thoughts and feelings, listen to their opinions, and give positive responses. Through communication with children, parents can better understand their children's needs and problems, and provide them with correct guidance and support.
2. Give reasonable support and encouragement
Parents play an important role in children's learning and growth. They can give reasonable support and encouragement to children to help them overcome difficulties. Parents can provide help in learning, such as making learning plans and answering questions. At the same time, parents should also give sincere praise and encouragement when children make progress or achievements, so that children can feel their own value and ability.
3. Establish a positive attitude
In the higher stage, academic pressure and difficulties will increase, and parents can help children establish a positive attitude. Encourage them to remain optimistic and persistent in the face of difficulties. Parents can share their experiences, tell their children that success requires effort and persistence, and also accept failures and setbacks, and learn from them.
4. Guide autonomous learning
Senior one is the stage when students gradually learn independently. Parents can guide their children to develop the ability of independent learning. Encourage them to develop learning objectives, help them to develop learning plans, and provide necessary resources and support. At the same time, parents should also give children proper autonomy, let them learn to manage time and solve problems themselves, and cultivate the ability to think independently and solve difficulties.
5. Pay attention to physical and mental health
Senior one students face a lot of physical and mental pressure, so parents should pay attention to their physical and mental health. Encourage children to keep good habits of work and rest, and arrange study and rest time reasonably. In addition, parents can encourage children to participate in physical exercise and relaxation activities to help them release pressure and maintain physical and mental health.
6. Cultivate interests
Encouraging children to develop hobbies is an important way to help them realize their potential. Parents can encourage children to try different activities and fields, such as music, sports, art, etc. When children show strong interest in an activity, parents can provide relevant resources and opportunities to help them further develop and deepen their interests.