Children in junior high school fall in love early. Parents should be able to calmly deal with it. Communication is a bridge to deal with parent-child problems. It is recommended that parents come step by step, not destroy the parent-child relationship, and treat it specifically according to the specific situation. They should not vigorously advocate, let alone catch the wind and catch the shadow. They should face it calmly, teach correctly, and not delay children's learning.
What should junior high school students do about puppy love
1. Different education policies should be formulated according to different situations. The seemingly intimate, intimate and puppy love relationship is actually just an ordinary friendship relationship. We should strongly advocate that we should not catch wind and shadow to destroy the original harmonious atmosphere between students. For students who have deviant behavior, it is necessary to clearly point out that this is immoral behavior, which is harmful to people and themselves. They are also required to correct immediately and never allow repeat offenses.
For the rest of the situation, we should give correct guidance and conduct sexual moral education. We should guide them to treat themselves and others wisely. Focus on knowledge and learning skills, and understand the morality and norms of both sexes. Never form an antagonistic mood, otherwise all education will be in vain.
2. Parents communicate with him in an equal way, rather than being superior and preaching. Children are more willing to share their innermost thoughts with friends than adults or teachers. When a child tries to tell his true feelings, such as why he likes that girl and how she makes him feel.
At this time, parents must remember not to interrupt at random. They must wait until the child has finished speaking, first identify with his feelings, and then analyze the impact of love on him with reason, including both good and bad aspects.
3. We should face up to this fact and deal with it correctly. First of all, parents should not make a fuss about it, let alone solve it in a rude, simple and forceful way. Secondly, parents should communicate with their children equally and democratically, understand their true ideas, respect their children's personality and privacy, and do not read their children's diaries and letters at will. Thirdly, we should give children more care and encouragement, help them build confidence, let them feel the love and care of their parents, so that they can treat their feelings correctly.
4. Helping children with schools and teachers. For junior high school students, their studies are getting heavier and heavier, and they are facing pressure such as high school entrance examination. Now there are more only children. Many times, parents put all their expectations on themselves, which will inevitably lead children to go wrong. At this time, love may help them get rid of this pressure and feel the beauty of youth.
How to deal with junior high school students who are particularly rebellious in adolescence
1. Look at children with more appreciative eyes: for children in the rebellious period of junior high school, parents can't criticize them too much. They should treat children with more appreciative eyes, so that children feel that in the eyes of parents, it is not so bad, and parents still like themselves.
2. Communicate with children in a deliberative tone: When communicating with children in the rebellious period, parents can no longer be tough, but use an imperative tone to educate children. Children have their own thoughts and ideas, and have their own ideas, so when talking, they can discuss with children more, put forward their own views, and let children compare and choose.
3. Make friends with children: parents should communicate more with children to understand their thoughts and trends, and timely give them psychological counseling. Don't take tough measures. Adolescent children are very vulnerable psychologically and are easy to do extreme things, so they should make friends with children.
Why do junior high school students fall in love
1. Social pressure: In junior high school, students begin to enter adolescence and become interested in the opposite sex. At the same time, the social circle also expanded, and students began to contact different groups more. This kind of social pressure may prompt some children to start puppy love.
2. Family environment: Family environment may also be a factor of puppy love. Some girls may lack the attention and support of their parents, or have problems such as family force and divorce in their families, which may lead children to seek attention and comfort from the outside world and start puppy love.
3. Media influence: In modern society, the media has more and more influence on teenagers. Some movies, TV dramas, music and other media works depict the plot of puppy love, which may also make some children mistake puppy love as a romantic behavior.