Boys are introverted and not good at communication. They are always docile in speaking and doing things. Parents try every means to help their children, but the effect seems not obvious. In fact, there is no good or bad distinction between introverted children and extroverted children. Parents only need to guide their children.
How to deal with boys who are too introverted and not sociable
1. Parents should respect their children. For introverted children, parents should not be anxious, let alone force children. The more parents force children, the more resistance they will have, and the result will be counterproductive. In the face of introverted children, parents should respect their children. If parents want their children to make friends and their children do not go there, parents should find steps for their children, and take the initiative to shake hands with the children. They always use this way to influence their children, and believe that children will gradually like making friends.
2. Parents should give their children the right way to socialize. If parents want their children to make more friends, they should also teach them the correct way to socialize. Many children actually want to take the initiative to make friends, but they don't know how to communicate with others. Parents can usually teach their children some common communication needs to communicate with others, and they should say "thank you" for receiving help from others.
3. Guide children to participate in more collective activities. Parents can take their children to socialize and play with children of similar age. Apply for an interest class for children. If children like singing, you can apply for a music class for them. If children like dancing, you can apply for a dance class for them. Together with like-minded partners, you will have a common language.
4. Parents should let go moderately. Children are introverted because they lack the opportunity to communicate with the outside world. They can let children do things within their power. They can arrange simple tasks in daily life, such as letting children go to the nearby supermarket to buy things alone.
In this way, children can learn to face the crowd alone and improve their introverted character. Parents should let go moderately and create more opportunities for children to contact, communicate and communicate with outsiders alone.
Introversion is not a disadvantage. What are the advantages of introverted children
1. Introverted children have strong concentration. Introverted children don't seem to talk much, and their communication skills are not very strong. Most of the time, they look more like a bystander. However, because of this, they have more thoughts and time to discover and ponder something. Therefore, we will find that introverted children prefer to think and focus on doing things.
2. Introverted children are more likely to remain calm and rational. Introverted children are more willing to stay awake and alert, and have greater independence. Therefore, introverted children can deal with things calmly when they encounter them. They are not impatient and make fewer mistakes.
3. An introverted child has a delicate mind. Introverted children, who are quiet and don't like talking, are immersed in deep thinking more often. Therefore, although they don't seem active, they tend to think clearly and logically. Many times, they think comprehensively and can see the nature of the problem.
Several "social skills" that children should learn
1. Speak more. People and things around can prove that an introverted child who doesn't like to talk can't communicate with others. Therefore, we need to encourage children to speak more and let them dare to express themselves. For example, when meeting acquaintances when going to the mall, we should encourage and guide children to greet them actively.
2. Let children learn to listen. Learning to express is the first step for a child to approach the crowd. The most important step is to let the child learn to listen. We often say that it is more difficult to be a qualified listener than a qualified speaker. For a child's circle of friends, if he does not listen to others, he will soon have a friendship crisis.
3. Protect children's self-confidence. Although the child is young, he has a lot of self-esteem. When taking care of children, parents must pay attention to their children's psychological changes. In front of outsiders, don't complain about the child's misdeeds, let alone physically punish or verbally attack him. Only when children's self-confidence is enhanced will they actively play with children of the same age.
