There are many high school freshmen who always don't pay attention to their studies, don't read well, and don't listen carefully in class. The first thing to do after school is not to do homework but play games. In the face of such a situation, parents must pay attention to it and take timely measures to guide children to read well.
How to deal with senior one students who don't study hard
1. It is normal to communicate with children patiently and carefully to help them build confidence. Don't feel inferior or give up easily. Find out the reason why this happens. It is because of inattention or mental difficulty, or the teaching method of high school can not fully adapt to it. Guide children to speak their minds and realize the communication between parents and children.
2. Learn more about the children's ideal goals for the high school stage, and help the children to establish correct and achievable goals as friends. A person's motivation comes from within, from the pursuit of future dreams. Let children understand the purpose of learning, set up core goals and short-term goals, let children understand the meaning of learning, and become passive to active.
3. Find out the reasons why high school students are tired of learning. To find out the reasons why students are tired of learning, and to sum up correctly, is conducive to promoting subsequent learning, and is also a relatively stable personality quantitative. We should correctly guide students to attribute the reason for their success or failure in learning to their own efforts. Success means that they try hard to reach the goal, while failure means that they do not try hard enough to put the reason off their ability.
4. High school students should be motivated to learn. With learning motivation, students can better promote learning behavior. Without learning motivation, students cannot produce learning behavior. It can stimulate students' thirst for knowledge, strengthen the connection between knowledge and life, and improve students' cognitive ability of knowledge value. The development of learning motivation depends on students' sense of self-efficacy, sense of self-development, and sense of striving for social status.
What are the reasons for senior one students' weariness of learning
1. Children can't learn. Children who cannot learn learn hard, tired and bored. These children often do not pay attention when learning, and can not link the new and old common sense for learning; It is not allowed to select the important content and leave the unimportant content behind; Unable to express the learned common sense correctly and reasonably.
2. The accompanying study of parents has resulted in the lack of learning consciousness of senior one children, the difficulty of understanding the learning process, the difficulty of solving new problems on their own, and the joy of success after solving problems independently.
3. Parents have errors in the orientation of their children's intention to learn common sense. They set their intention to learn common sense in tomorrow instead of today. He often said to his children, "If you don't study hard, you will have to build the earth and sweep the streets in the future."
The utilitarianism is too intense. In this way, children can not feel the pleasure of acquiring common sense, but only pay attention to others' comments on their academic achievements. Children are not interested in common sense and naturally regard learning as hard work.
4. The expectations of parents are too high. For the sake of children, parents can abandon their own careers. They can not rest on weekends. They can coach children, practice piano and learn painting with children. The psychological and physical pressure of children is greatly increased.
What should parents do if high school children are tired of school
1. Set a goal for your child. It is far from enough that children not only have hobbies and interests, but also must cultivate a serious and careful spirit, which is a necessary condition for achieving good results. The first grade children begin to learn and imitate. When parents help their children learn, first of all, they must be careful, patient and set an example.
2. Develop clear and appropriate learning objectives. The learning purpose is the result or goal that children want to achieve in learning. Learning purpose, as a factor to generate and maintain learning motivation, plays an important role in guiding students' learning activities.
3. Parents should love learning. Set an example and set an example. You all love learning. I don't believe children don't love learning. Your behavior is seen in their eyes and recorded in their hearts, which will inevitably be influenced imperceptibly. The power of example is enormous, and we must be convinced of this. Because the problem of children is the problem of parents.
