After many children expressed the idea of not wanting to go to school, some parents didn't think so. They felt that the children were too young to understand anything. In the end, not only did they become bored with school, but also they formed a rebellious mentality. In fact, there are reasons why children say they don't want to go to school. Parents should understand the reasons and eliminate children's weariness of school as soon as possible.
What to do if the first grade children don't want to go to school
1. Guide children more. I have already gone to primary school, so I can't relax like a kindergarten any more. I can let my children go if they want to, or not go if they don't want to. As a parent, you can only guide your children more. For example, it is fun to go to primary school. The campus life in primary school will be more colorful than that in kindergarten.
And the good friends who went to kindergarten together have all gone to kindergarten. If we go back to kindergarten again, our little brothers and sisters will laugh at us. Try to coax more, or use some reward methods to let children adapt to primary school first.
2. Tell children more about interesting things on campus. Children do not want to learn, which is probably because they are not interested in school. If parents guide children and make them interested in school, children will feel that school is a very interesting place.
Parents should not only tell their children interesting things in school, but also encourage them to make more friends. Only in this way can children enjoy school life more and more. School can not only let children learn some knowledge, but also let children develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically. In fact, these will have a great impact on children's future life.
3. Patiently coach children to learn. One of the main reasons why children in grade one are bored with school is that they encounter great difficulties in learning, and their confidence in learning is hit, thus losing interest in learning. Therefore, parents should patiently coach their children to learn and help them regain confidence and sense of achievement.
Parents should not only take their children to carefully read the contents of the textbook and redo all the wrong questions in the classroom exercises, but also find some relevant questions for children to practice their hands again to help children increase their familiarity with knowledge points and topics.
4. Cultivate children's study habits. To teach children how to listen carefully, they should not only listen carefully to the knowledge points explained by the teacher, but also actively think about the questions raised by the teacher, take the initiative to raise their hands to answer the questions, but also identify whether the answers of other students are correct, correct the wrong answers in time or make appropriate supplements.
Reasons for being tired of learning in the first grade of primary school
First, parents' expectations are too high. Parents have too high a goal orientation for their children's learning, and high expectations will increase the pressure on their children. Unconsciously, they will link learning with pain, and will have a weariness of learning.
Second, children can't learn. This kind of children often do not pay attention when learning, cannot link old knowledge with new knowledge, cannot correctly and reasonably express the knowledge they have learned, and will be tired of learning the increasingly heavy academic courses.
Third, the children have problems with their classmates, partners and peers, and cannot integrate into the school.
Fourth, the teacher or classmate who received unfair criticism, was bullied, and was hurt in the heart caused by the lack of love to learn.
Fifth, the pressure of learning is too great, and the pressure caused by oneself is too great. Some children can't bear the pressure, so they will unconsciously become tired of learning.
What are the signs of children's weariness of school
1. Procrastination of homework and resistance to homework. Homework is an indispensable task for children in learning, and also a way of review. If children start to resist content other than learning, especially homework, it means that they start to resist learning and are tired of learning.
2. Lie. In order to avoid learning, they often lie, weave lies, and let parents believe that the learning task has been completed.
3. Tired of reading. Reading makes children feel frustrated and their confidence in learning decreases. Children who begin to feel tired of learning will feel bored and do not want to read when they see books or mention learning.
4. Emotional instability. Everyone is prone to anger and emotional instability when facing things that they are not good at or do not want to do. Children will be restless and emotional instability when facing school, most of which are related to school weariness.
