15 year old children are at the same age as the blooming season. They should be junior high school children. It is a pity if they don't go to school at this time. Junior high school is an important period for children to learn knowledge. If they learn knowledge well in junior high school, they will save a lot of efforts in senior high school, and will contribute to their bright future.
My child doesn't want to learn what to do when he is 15
1. Encourage children to be self motivated. If a child can often encourage and urge himself, he may avoid academic failure. First of all, we should help children set self motivation goals. Secondly, let the children learn to suggest themselves, often say a word of encouragement to themselves, and let the children get rid of negative emotions in action. If children are afraid of learning failure, it is important to tell them what actions to take to eliminate this emotion.
2. Instruct children in learning methods. When tutoring children, we should teach them how to acquire knowledge, such as how to check reference books and how to obtain the information they want. If the child does not choose important content in the learning process, parents can consciously give the child two long articles every week, and let him abbreviate the long articles into short articles. The process of abbreviation not only reflects the child's understanding of knowledge, but also reflects the child's creativity.
3. Parents should learn to observe and understand their children carefully. Be good at discovering children's advantages and then take targeted measures, such as encouraging them to join interest groups, participate in some educational collective activities, participate in competitions or take them to museums to see some exhibitions on Sundays, etc. Every child does not want to be inferior to others, and does not want to learn because he has no motivation, does not want to and does not know where to start, Unable to find the learning entrance.
4. Don't make decisions for children. Parents teach their children too rigidly and interfere too much in their choices. The correct way is to respect their choices and refer to their opinions, which can make their rebellious children's emotions more stable and orderly.
5. Put yourself in the other's shoes. Parents should think for their children from the perspective of their children. Don't think that parents should get along with their children in a high position. This is unfair to children, and will cause estrangement between parents and children. Therefore, empathy is also a way to communicate with children in the rebellious period.
6. Don't nag. The rebellious children can't stand the parents' wordiness. This is a variety of disgusting behaviors, or a wrong way of education. Sometimes, the parents' painstaking way will make the children's rebellion more serious.
The reason why children do not want to learn at the age of 15
1. The learning burden is too heavy. Nowadays, the social competition is becoming increasingly fierce. Parents put too much pressure on their children to become adults. Most teachers in schools assign too much homework to their children for exam oriented education, resulting in no spare time for children to relax physically and mentally. Children with poor mental quality will find it very difficult to learn and can't learn well.
2. The doting family atmosphere causes the lack of learning motivation of children. Today's children are basically only children, who are easily spoiled by their parents. Parents only pay attention to their children's physique and nutrition, and the material requirements are more responsive than the psychological character training. They do not pay attention to the cultivation of their children's diligence, independence and self determination, and do not pay attention to the exercise of their children's will to overcome difficulties. They have been spoiled since childhood, and have no motivation to learn.
The Harm of Children Weary of School at the Age of 15
It seriously affects academic performance and forms a vicious circle. Teenagers who are seriously bored with learning lack interest in learning. However, under the pressure of their parents, they have to stick to the classroom. Of course, their academic performance is not good, and they will be blamed by teachers and parents for this. If there is obvious anxiety, they will hate learning more.
Affect interpersonal relationships. Faced with the expectations of parents, the pressure of entering a higher school and employment, bored scholars live in a negative mood of anxiety, nervousness and anxiety all day long, often with inferiority and lack of self-confidence. Children are more likely to abandon themselves and simply mix with partners who share common experiences with themselves. Due to the revenge psychology, there will be rebellion, mischief, bullying weak students and other behaviors, which seriously affect their normal interpersonal communication.
Harm self-confidence and self-esteem. Poor academic performance makes them lose confidence even more, and those who are serious will drop out of school because of it. However, the impact of school weariness on these children is far more than that. Frustration in learning can cause serious psychological shadows. As adults, these children often lack self-confidence, and will be frustrated in love and interpersonal relationships.
