With the continuous progress of science and technology, adults have become accustomed to children playing with mobile phones for a long time, but they did not know that in order to finish their homework early, children secretly use question search software and rely on the Internet to easily obtain answers. Over a long period of time, they have formed a habit, and their scores in exams are very poor. How do parents deal with this situation? Let's have a look.
What should children do when they rely on their mobile phones for homework
1. Don't be overly anxious. Parents can see their children's problems and actively seek solutions to them, which is very gratifying. Many parents are always difficult to control the power of famine in their bodies when facing their children's learning problems. As a result, the parent-child relationship is getting worse and worse, and the children's problems are more serious.
Compared with children who are completely indifferent to homework, it is a good phenomenon that children are willing to take the initiative to complete homework. Apart from the problem that children like to use mobile phones to check the answers, at least children know to finish homework before they go to play games, which also has room for education. Above all, parents should not worry and do not force children into a corner.
2. Discuss the correct mode of doing homework. Parents need to understand the child's psychology, discuss the correct mode of homework with the child on the basis of respecting the child's demand for rest time, and make clear that mobile phones can be used to solve the problem of learning and homework, but can't rely on mobile phones all the time, which is the laziness of thinking.
Parents can discuss with their children that they should give their mobile phones to their parents for safekeeping before doing their homework. No matter whether they will or not, they should first try to think and try by themselves. When the homework is finished, they should query the answers to the homework that they think has problems. The answer query is not simply about the answer, but more importantly, to understand the correct solution ideas and find out the errors in your solution, so as to achieve the effect of doing homework.
3. By encouraging children to strengthen their ability to think. Parents should pay more attention to their children's homework at ordinary times, and communicate with their children about homework. In addition, you can ask the teacher about the children's learning and understand their learning level. Finally, give children free space, trust them, and trust them to learn by themselves.
4. Change the way of education. Let the child try to be independent. When the child is doing homework, parents can agree with the child to finish the homework they can do first and list the topics they can't do.
The reason why children are addicted to mobile phones
1. The influence of parents. Modern mobile life has become a trend. Mobile phones and other electronic living devices are an integral part of life. It is almost impossible and not completely correct to let children completely isolate mobile phones. Since it is a part of life, it has a reasonable value of existence. The more positive parents' attitude towards mobile phones, the more correct children's attitude towards mobile phones can be.
2. Children lack companionship. Without the company of parents, children feel lonely and have no place to appeal. The rich and colorful content information in mobile phones impacts children's vision and brain, and children are more likely to be interested in it, immersed in it and forget about loneliness, boredom and boredom.
3. Entertainment is limited. Because parents are busy with their work or lack of awareness of family education, they do not give useful guidance to children after they finish their homework, and children cannot find other better things to replace mobile phones, so mobile phones have become the most convenient choice. From this aspect, it can also be said that children's extracurricular life is scarce. It can also be said that parents have not done a good job in guiding in this regard.
What is the impact of children using mobile phones to complete homework
1. Make children unable to test what they have learned. The reason why schools leave homework for children is to check whether children have mastered the knowledge they have learned. As long as teachers and parents give more guidance to children here, children's learning will surely improve. But when children are used to seeking help online, the meaning of homework will not exist.
2. Develop the habit of plagiarism. At first, the child may want to solve the problem because of encountering difficulties, but after finding the convenience of copying the answers, he failed to resist the temptation and formed the habit over time. From one subject to another, I didn't think about any questions, just wanted to find answers directly, and finally formed a habit.
3. Make children dependent and lazy. Because of the emergence of these "learning tools", children are accustomed to directly searching for problems instead of using their own brains to think. In the long run, children will habitually use these "tools", and their ability to think will also deteriorate if they are not exercised for a long time.