Children should be introverted, and parents should be able to accept it. There is no difference between good and bad personality. Introversion has the advantages of introversion. If parents want to train their children to become cheerful and generous, they should make their own changes, consciously guide their children in life, more affirm and praise their children, listen to their children's expressions, and improve their children's expression ability, then children will no longer be afraid of communication, Will also become more daring.
How to change children's introversion
1. Create a harmonious atmosphere: In a harmonious and civilized family environment, children will be emotionally stable, cheerful, emotionally rich and confident. Therefore, parents should first create a warm and secure family atmosphere for their children.
Secondly, we should meet the children's sense of belonging, make them feel loved and respected, do not blindly arrange their activities according to their own wishes, and reserve their right to choose reasonable requirements. In such an environment, children will feel relaxed and happy, speak freely, and dare to communicate with their parents when they have any ideas, which will easily form a lively and cheerful personality.
2. Actively communicate with children: when children come home from school, they should actively contact with children, let them talk about school life, and let them talk about their views on some things. Only by communicating with children more and understanding their inner thoughts, can we suit the right medicine to the case and really help them.
3. When failing, encourage instead of throwing stones at the bottom of a well: Many children are very cheerful at first, but sometimes they inadvertently do wrong, sometimes they greet their favorite partners, but they are criticized by their parents for being too enthusiastic, which frightens other children. It may be just a joke, but the child will keep it in mind and change the way next time.
Or sometimes, when children do not get the ideal ranking in small competitions, parents will satirize or laugh at them. Even if they don't really have this idea, they will write it down even if they are quick at talking. In case of the same situation in the future, children will not take the initiative to avoid being scolded again.
4. Accept your child's character frankly: introversion is not terrible, in fact, introversion is not terrible, and introverted children can also be winners in life. There was a study that showed that those children who showed shyness and introversion at the age of 2 were introverted even when they grew up to 18.
Psychological research has also confirmed that introverted children are not self enclosed or self abased, timid and cowardly. They are just different from extroverted children in the way they get energy. Extroverted children gain energy by interacting with other people, while introverted children gain energy by being alone with themselves.
What should I do if the child doesn't like talking and always stays alone
1. Get more children to contact the outside world. Leading the children to the community and the square can help them communicate with other peers and develop their communication ability. It doesn't matter if he doesn't know how to say it at the beginning. He can see how others play and how others chat, which can be a stepping stone for him to contact others.
2. Exercise children regularly. Children can be asked to do things within their ability, such as borrowing things, asking for directions, and delivering messages. At first, children may not go because they are afraid, or they can't speak in front of unfamiliar people. This needs to give children spiritual encouragement and not blame them.
If conditions permit, you can greet the person the child wants to communicate with in advance, so that the other party can cooperate with you and successfully complete the task, which also helps to build the child's self-confidence. In school, if children can participate in the organization of some activities, it will also play a role in cultivating children's extroverted personality.
Children are afraid to speak in front of their peers and are not confident. What should they do
1. Parents help children gradually adapt to social occasions. Start with familiar people and environment, gradually guide children to contact unfamiliar people and environment, and enhance children's social skills.
2. What parents should do is to guide them correctly, communicate with their children as adults, gradually cultivate their ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, and let them actively speak and express themselves while protecting themselves.
