When the parents of the child's puppy love know it, they will not object to it. They will talk about their experience with him. After they gain trust, they will slowly guide them to study hard and work hard for the future. They should imperceptibly guide them slowly.
What to do when children fall in love in junior high school
1. When parents know this situation, they should correctly guide their children, tell them more about the impact of first love on their own learning and growth, try to reduce their contact time, and let them participate in some useful extracurricular activities. It is his effort to transfer to other activities. In general, parents should help their children with the misunderstanding of first love.
2. If you find your child is in puppy love, don't blindly suppress him or her. You can chat with him or her like a friend. It's normal to have a heterosexual person you like when you enter adolescence. Love is a beautiful thing. Especially when you are in love, beautiful things should be treated well. You should not do impulsive things, let alone affect each other's studies because of love. Two people can encourage each other, academic love double harvest!
3. Never look for teachers or tell people everywhere. Everyone knows that it hurts children's self-esteem. Parents should tell their sons that there is a long way to go in life and there are many unknown variables. This stage of junior high school should be a period of wholehearted learning. Put your mind on learning cultural knowledge. When you have a stable job in the future, you can fall in love.
4. We can't despise him or beat her. If we beat and scold her and despise her, she will become more rebellious. Therefore, she may go to extremes, which will backfire. We can only care about her life and study, including further education on her ideology, so that she can realize that she can't fall in love at this age and should study wholeheartedly.
Why do children fall in love
1. Puppy love is a kind of over intimate closeness between the two sexes in the process of puberty sexual maturity. Nowadays, most people call puppy love "too intimate". Young boys and girls begin to mature due to sexual development, and instinctively produce feelings of mutual love.
2. Adolescent children, both physically and mentally, are in a period of change and begin to have the concept of the opposite sex. At this stage, it is normal to have a good impression on the opposite sex. If not, it should be strange.
3. May be seduced and have feelings. There is a huge hidden danger in chatting, meeting and talking with unknown netizens. People from all over the world, how much do they know each other? Who can guarantee that the other party has not concealed their true situation. There are too many examples in this regard, and many people regret not overlapping.
4. Teenagers are excited. Youth is young and human. And the person you like happens to like you, and that moment of joy is enough to cover the confusion and rationality. Maybe there is not much difference between love and love, but the heart of a teenager is called like, and the heart of an adult is called love.
As mentioned in the politics book of junior high school, it is just mature ahead of time. The difference is not in love and liking, but in our inability to bear consequences and responsibilities. So, don't dwell on it, so work hard to be able to love.
How to put an end to puppy love
1. Find the target
For parents, if they want to put an end to their children's puppy love on campus, they must help them find their life goals early. Only when the goals are very clear and recognized by the children, can they resist all kinds of blind temptations, and can they put all their minds into learning, so that their achievements will not be affected.
2. Family care
Most children with puppy love have unhappy families and strong psychological burdens. Parents who neglect their children's inner feelings too much will often cause them strong inner scars. Therefore, if you want to put an end to children's puppy love, you must pay attention to children from the heart, so that they can have a healthy growth environment, so as to avoid falling into the whirlpool of puppy love.
3. Warm family
Try to build the family into a warm and harmonious paradise, so that children have a sense of security. If you find signs of puppy love, you should analyze the causes and solve the problems symptomatically. Is it the so-called "fact" caused by the students' cajoling, or a temporary emotional impulse? Is it the confusion of adolescence, or is it too nervous to learn? In short, careful investigation and patient thought transformation are needed.
