Most parents always feel helpless when facing their children's education problems, especially in the rebellious period of their children's youth, when facing all kinds of rebellious behaviors of their children, parents do not know how to communicate with their children.
How to educate junior high school students who rebel against going to school
1. Parents should skillfully guide children who are tired of learning. Don't be too anxious and anxious when dealing with students who are tired of learning. This is useless for solving problems. Parents should pay more attention to their children's behavior, try to understand their children, find out the root cause of their children's weariness, and work with their children to solve the problem. They should not blindly criticize and criticize, This criticism and criticism is just one way to cultivate children's weariness of school. The more impatient the parents are, the greater the reaction will be, and the problem will only become more serious.
2. Parents should praise and encourage more. Parents should not miss every opportunity worthy of praise. When a child has achieved success, he should feel the joy of success, let him know how happy success is, so he will do the same next time. This kind of gentle praise is easy to be accepted by children, and children will not lose interest in learning because of a bad performance.
3. Reduce children's learning pressure appropriately. Many parents want their children to learn more knowledge, so they desperately report endless training classes to their children, and their children's free time is limited. Or parents give their children too high expectations. This will bring a lot of pressure to the children, which will lead to aversion to learning.
Therefore, parents should reduce their children's pressure and let them live happily for the sake of their children, instead of giving them too much pressure and more freedom to play.
4. Parents should pay attention to company. Some children do not want to go to school, which may be related to parents' long-term busy work and neglect of their children's growth. At this time, not only parents need to reflect, take time to accompany their children, but also find the reasons why children do not want to go to school in the company, increase parent-child activities to improve parent-child relationship, so that children can grow healthily and happily in a relaxed and happy family atmosphere.
The reasons why junior high school children are tired of learning
1. Family reasons. If parents ignore their children's intellectual limitations, they always unrealistic pressure on their children. Once the children fail to meet their expectations, they will show disappointment and sadness, and then deny them, thinking that the children have failed to live up to their own efforts. This is a moral kidnapping of children, which will make children feel very painful.
2. On the one hand, the study pressure is high. The rules of the college entrance examination and the high school entrance examination are changing rapidly, but the principle of "selective admission" remains unchanged. Therefore, children will try their best to get the ideal results. In this process, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of pressure. Many children will be tired of learning if they cannot withstand the pressure.
3. Lack of learning motivation. From the perspective of individual factors, children are uncertain about the purpose and significance of learning, lose the motivation of learning, or suffer repeated setbacks and failures in the learning process, and lack of confidence in learning, leading to the weakening of learning motivation and even regression.
What to do when high school students are tired of learning
1. Stimulate children's learning motivation. Learning motivation is the internal motivation to promote students' learning. Students are driven by a variety of motivations to produce learning behavior. It is impossible to produce learning behavior without motivation or negative motivation. Attention should be paid to stimulating students' thirst for knowledge, strengthening the connection between knowledge and life, and improving students' understanding of the value of knowledge.
2. Give children a good learning environment. Parents should create a democratic, equal, happy and interesting family atmosphere for their children, and create a relatively independent and quiet learning environment for their children. As a parent, don't increase the psychological burden on children, communicate with children more, understand children, and help them in time if they have any problems.
3. Reasonably arrange learning time. Children have different lessons to learn every day, so parents should pay attention to the reasonable arrangement of children's learning time outside the school, so that children can get better rest, work and rest, so that children can treat learning correctly.
