The child has already entered high school, but parents found that the child often plays with his mobile phone every night. He not only treats his study in this way, but also has an indifferent attitude. He refuses to do his homework, and does not listen to the lectures in class. All he thinks about is playing with his mobile phone. No matter how the parents preach, they just don't listen, and even have the tendency to make things worse. For this, parents are worried and don't know what to do.
How to deal with high school students playing with mobile phones every night
1. Spend more time with children. They may not like mobile phones so much. If you are willing to have some interesting activities with them, such as shopping malls, amusement parks, and interesting grasslands, or we can build blocks, models, and puzzles at home. Children will forget their mobile phones and concentrate on working with you.
2. If you can't accompany your children every day, then I suggest that you try to ignore it. Give him space and let him be independent. You can set a task for him, such as how much he has written today, and then check it every day. Find a small blackboard and make a mark when you are finished. He will arrange by himself. There is no need to collect mobile phones. He knows what his task is. After a long time, he can have his own plan.
3. Parents should also reduce playing with mobile phones, avoid playing with mobile phones in front of children, and create a good atmosphere. We all know that the best education is to teach by example.
4. We know that most students listen to their teachers. Why? Because he knows that teachers will not indulge him like parents, so as long as you stick to your position and do not compromise, children will change slowly.
5. Give the child a sense of identity, reduce some nagging, let him study hard when it is time to learn, do not interfere when it is time to play mobile phones, and give him enough freedom, but let him know that freedom is earned by the right way of life and learning. Once unconsciously, he disconnected his mobile phone.
6. Communicate patiently. Communication is essential. Only through good communication with children can they know what their parents expect of them and the dangers of indulging in mobile games. On the basis of communication, in order to urge children to study hard and avoid the influence of indulging in games on children's learning, we can choose to discuss with children to take some control measures appropriately.
Children often play with their mobile phones at night, and guide them to do three things
1. Don't rub your eyes all the time. Staring at the bright mobile phone screen for a long time will inevitably lead to dryness, so we will involuntarily rub our eyes. You know, when playing mobile phones, we basically use hands. Even if we don't use hands, the bacteria on the hands can't be ignored.
2. Don't turn off the lights and play with your mobile phone. Staying up late is a matter of personal injury and eye injury. If you play with your mobile phone in a dark environment, the weak light of your mobile phone will stimulate your eyes, which may lead to blurred vision and myopia.
3. Don't play with your phone for a long time. The time of playing with mobile phones should not be too long, because your eyes will be tired. If you stare at something for too long, your eyes will definitely feel dry and tears. In addition, the bright light of mobile phones in dim light will easily make your eyes tired and cause damage to your eyes, so you must not play with mobile phones for a long time.
How to deal with senior three children playing with mobile phones
1. Tell children about the dangers of playing with mobile phones. Parents should be well advised, calm and clear about their interests. Many children may accept this situation, but there are still some children who are lax and have poor self-discipline. Parents need to be patient, create a learning atmosphere at home, and often communicate with teachers at school, step by step, so that children can gradually improve their interest in learning until they are free from the temptation of mobile phones.
2. Take away your child's mobile phone. Parents should actively cooperate with the school, and children are prohibited from carrying mobile phones. We must not indulge in the treatment of mobile phones. It is also not allowed to find excuses for children to bring mobile phones. Before graduation from high school, children are not allowed to own personal mobile phones.
3. Cultivate children's hobbies. To explore children's interests and sign up for an interest class, we should first discuss with children to see what they are interested in, and then let them go to school. This can not only cultivate children's expertise, but also allow children to add some color to the heavy and simple high school life, and it can also release children's pressure. So, It is good for children to be interested in something.
