The children's performance of one model and two models is not ideal. Parents should guide the children to relax. The poor performance shows that the children still have room for progress. Seize the opportunity to find and fill gaps. In this way, when the high school entrance exam is due, they will certainly pass. Parents should let the children look at the good side. At the end of the day, they should actively prepare for the exam and not be defeated by themselves.
What to do if the children's performance is not satisfactory
1. Don't rush to blame the child or comfort the child. Learn about the child first. In fact, when the exam results are not ideal, the children's mood is worse than that of their parents. In particular, one model, two models and three models are equivalent to a middle school entrance exam. I often see female students who fail in the exam shed tears in the canteen.
So, first of all, find out the reasons for the unsatisfactory performance. Generally, after the model exam, a parent meeting will be held. If there is no parent meeting, parents can also take the initiative to contact the head teacher or the subject teacher whose child failed in the exam to find out what the child's recent learning status is. Find out whether the child is at the overall level in this mock exam, or whether it is because of too much learning pressure, lack of concentration on learning, puppy love or interpersonal problems that lead to the regression of learning.
In a word, only when we understand the reason can we "suit the remedy to the case". Not accustomed to children, nor too strict, is the proper guidance.
2. Don't compare other children. Many parents (including teachers) like to compare their children with their own children who have good grades. They think that this can stimulate their children to study hard. In fact, this is very inappropriate. Because every child is unique, we can't stimulate our own children by taking some advantages of others. This will not only hurt the children's self-confidence, but also help them develop a mentality of comparison.
The best way is to compare the child's past with the child's present, and then tell him how much progress he has made, which will make him confident.
3. Build self-confidence. Be patient and confident with children. Don't overemphasize achievements. Pay attention to cultivating children's self-confidence and independence, so that children can feel happiness and sense of achievement in learning, and are willing to learn and explore knowledge.
It should be noted that improving children's academic performance requires a long-term process, which requires parents and children to work together to comprehensively improve through a variety of methods.
4. Don't put too much pressure on children. Parents need to work out a reasonable daily standard according to their children's actual ability. At ordinary times, pay more attention to the progress of children and praise them more. We should also create a harmonious family environment for children, which can reduce their psychological pressure and make them live and study easily.
What should parents do when children are not confident in their own learning
1. Guide children to correctly deal with setbacks and failures, and take them as part of their learning and reflection. Use storytelling to explain the importance of setbacks and failures to children's life.
2. Tell the child that he is the most precious, the most treasured, the most lovely and the most potential person. Don't say your children are not good-looking in front of others, and don't emphasize that children are "very smart, that is, careless". When the child is talking, parents should not interrupt or deny.
When children ask their parents to "see what I draw, see what I do, see what I write, and see what I dance", they want to be recognized and praised by their parents. At this time, parents should not show carelessness, contempt or perfunctory.
What should children in the third grade do when they feel hopeless in the middle school entrance exam
1. Say less and do more. I think it is the best support for parents to give their children before the exam. What parents can do is to take care of and accompany their children, buy more fruits that children love, eat healthy and balanced diet, and be strong and healthy.
2. Parents' mentality should be adjusted. The high school entrance exam is around the corner. In fact, how children learn is basically a foregone conclusion. We should learn to take a step back and think that the high school entrance exam is just an inevitable thing for children in the process of growing up. It is a necessary experience. It is not important enough to affect children's happiness in life. Whether children will be happy in the future is not all determined by their academic qualifications.
Therefore, parents should put their minds right. They should not interfere too much with their children in the exam, do a good job in logistical support, and let their children prepare for the exam with peace of mind.
