Just like there will be a plateau period for weight loss, no matter how hard you try to gain weight, there will also be a plateau period for emotions. During this period, your feelings will be stuck there and can't go further. We call it the bottleneck period for emotions. So, what is the bottleneck of your feelings, and how to break through it? Let the Tarot test tell you the answer!
a、 Star Coin Three
Bottleneck of feelings: having a good start but not enough stability
It seems easy for you to have the feeling you want, which is not difficult for you. However, you have some difficulties in how to stabilize it and let it continue to develop healthily. There are three star coins in the card, but they are all black and white, not colored. Just like your feelings, they can only be regarded as unfinished.
This card tells you that if you want to get out of the bottleneck, you need to integrate three things: behavior, thought, and mind. These three things are indispensable. It is also a card that guides you to observe inside. You can see yourself clearly and understand yourself before your feelings can continue to move forward. Emotion is always your mirror, it can reflect the real you.
b、 control
Emotional bottleneck: immersing in the self preset world, ignoring the most real feelings.
In the emotional world, you know more about looking inward, what you need, how you should treat each other, and how to treat this relationship... You have rational and clear answers to a series of questions. At the same time, you know your heart and the direction of your love.
These are all very good, but the appearance of this card is to remind you that sometimes you pay too much attention to what you preset, but you will fall into a trap of yourself and ignore the real people around you. Go out of your inner world at the right time. Only true love and pain can awaken you.
c、 moon
Emotional bottleneck: being troubled by unknown emotions and affecting emotions.
The moon waxes and wanes, which is the law of nature. Just like every woman's special date, it is the law of life, which is not determined by ourselves. In your feelings, sometimes unknown emotions that even you don't know will bother you. Maybe you can use "worrying about nothing" to laugh at them. Maybe there is no reason for their coming.
However, it doesn't matter. If you follow your subconscious self slowly, you may see the path leading to change. This card is to tell you that there is no need to blame yourself too much in your feelings. There is no right or wrong in many things. Even if it is affected, it can also be towards the better side.
d、 Baojianba
Emotional bottleneck: too many principles are tied in the brain to see true love.
Many smart people lose their true love because they are too smart. This is not to say that intelligence is bad, but to say that when the brain goes too fast, the heart will not keep up. In the emotional world, you are a person with "principles" and ideas. These principles and ideas make you have many judgments about "good" and "bad" feelings, "should" and "should not" feelings.
But are these judgments helping you? Or hinder you? This card is telling you, do you dare to put down all the thoughts and concepts of morality, judgment, right and wrong, principle, good and bad, whether or not, and only love with the heart, to love bravely once?
