The child just doesn't open his mouth to read? Parents should encourage children to speak more. We can take a step-by-step approach. At the beginning, let children read only the last word or the first word in a sentence, or the word they like, and then slowly transition to phrases, and then to sentences, gradually increasing children's interest in reading.
How to deal with children who are unwilling to read
1. Read with children. Even if the child can read independently, she should continue to encourage her, because if there are more interesting things to attract her, she may lose interest in reading. The process that parents can accompany reading can make children feel happy and warm, and sometimes this feeling can make her more involved.
If the child asks questions during reading, try to answer the child's questions. At the same time, it is better to keep some children's encyclopedias at home. When the child asks a question, guide her to find the answer from the book.
2. Fixed reading time. A fixed period of time is selected every week, which is a common reading time for family members. For example, 30 minutes after dinner, everyone selects their favorite books and reads them quietly. After that, they can also arrange a small sharing and take turns to talk about their reading experience.
If conditions permit, you can record everyone's reading experience, save it in the computer, and then take it out for a look later. This can strengthen the child's memory and her interest in reading.
3. Cultivate an atmosphere suitable for reading. Reading atmosphere is very important for children. If children cannot read in a good reading atmosphere, it will be difficult for them to concentrate on their studies. Therefore, it is suggested that we should pay more attention to children's reading atmosphere in life, so that children can learn in a quiet atmosphere.
4. Children must have a correct cognition, tell them the importance of learning, and parents should do a correct guidance to let children know that this is a necessary stage for everyone. In general, it is recommended to avoid beating and scolding, and teach children patiently.
The reason why children are unwilling to read
1. Children's literacy is still too low. Usually, when children can recognize some Chinese characters, parents will try to let children read by themselves. In fact, children can only know a small part of Chinese characters, far from the ability to read a book. After all, there are many strange Chinese characters in a book, which greatly affects children's reading experience.
2. The reading materials selected by parents are not suitable. Many classic works contain a lot of truth and philosophy of life, which is far beyond children's reading ability and understanding ability. After reading for a long time, the child was confused about the plot and the content of the story, so he had to understand it. If it is read to children by parents or electronic devices, they will usually add explanations or use more understandable language, and children will naturally listen with interest.
3. Children are independent individuals. Each child is special, independent, has his own direction of expertise, and has his own love or not. Some children are born to like words, and some children are born to like sounds, just like the division of arts and science, which cannot be overemphasized.
Children don't like reading. Parents can improve it in several ways
1. Set an example. Children are fond of playing and don't like learning. First of all, see how they are doing as parents. If they play mahjong and watch TV all day long, they naturally don't want to learn. If they can often read in front of their children, they will be edified without saying much.
2. Pay more attention to company. Children are fond of playing and don't study. Parents should pay more attention, often remind and accompany them. After all, children are young and have poor self-control. If parents are often absent, children are difficult to control themselves. So parents should pay more attention to children for their healthy growth.
3. Create a good environment. Children are fond of playing and don't like learning, which has something to do with the environment around them. If the surrounding environment is full of children who are fond of playing, and is particularly busy and lively, there are many interesting things, it will naturally affect the children. It is important to choose a good environment.
4. The family is harmonious and warm. Children are fond of playing and don't like learning, which may be rebellious or unhappy. The harmony and warmth of the family have a great impact on children's learning. If the husband and wife are harmonious, have a good relationship, and care for children, then children are naturally more sensible. On the contrary, if not, how can children learn with ease when they are in a bad mood?
5. Strict discipline and more training. None of the children can control themselves very well, and they are especially fond of learning. One is the influence of family and environment, and the other is the result of a long-term exercise. So parents should discipline more and train more to let the children form a good habit.
6. Set goals in three chapters. If we can help children set up a short-term goal that can be achieved through hard work, after children experience the happiness of success, they will naturally increase their confidence in learning and their interest in learning will gradually increase.