When the head teacher finds that the child is unwilling to do homework, first of all, don't be too anxious, let alone scold the child, which is easy to touch the child's rebellious psychology. The correct approach is to find out the reason why the child doesn't do homework, so that we can solve the problem from the root.
What should parents do if their first child doesn't do homework
1. Help children set learning goals. In order to make children learn without boring and work with direction, children should not ask whether they have finished their homework after school, but how many homework and what are the main problems? This is also to let children understand what to learn, cultivate their ability to analyze, judge and think from an early age, and then start to make plans and set goals with children, so that children will feel that when doing homework, they are not completing tasks but accomplishing something, and they will feel a sense of achievement.
2. Reasonably check homework. Parents can read books beside their children while their children are doing homework. Don't neglect children. When children finish some homework, they should learn to check, so that children can feel that their parents attach importance to them. In this way, children will be more willing to learn, so that they can find the children who have not learned well, and help them find and fill the gaps. Don't say the homework exam must be the first.
3. Change children's cognition. Many first graders think that reading is useless and it is better to be an Internet celebrity. This is a cognitive bias. Parents must change their children's cognition and establish a correct concept. When children realize the importance of learning, they will take the initiative to learn, and also take the initiative to write homework, trying to improve their grades.
4. To increase children's interest in learning, parents can increase children's interest in learning, which can not only enhance communication between parents and children, but also enhance children's own learning attitude. Children's learning attitude has changed, and their homework will become proactive.
5. To help children build self-confidence, the essence of Matthew effect is that the stronger the stronger, the weaker the weaker. In many cases, the reason why children don't love learning is that they lose self-confidence. Let the child rekindle hope. Only in this way can the child have the motivation to move forward. Accordingly, he will also redouble his efforts. With efforts, he will have the chips. In the future, he will only become better and better.
The reason why the first graders don't do homework
1. Lack of motivation, learning is a process, not overnight, but to enable children to achieve in learning. Children need to have perseverance in learning, just like a person running a long distance, to cheer him up and give him strength in the running process. Therefore, parents need to cheer and encourage their children in their studies.
2. There is a fear of difficulties, and some children may not be bored with school at the beginning, or even very motivated. However, because the learning method is wrong, or the learning habit is bad, or the learning difficulty increases, and they gradually fail to get a good learning result, then they think that learning is a burden, a difficult thing, a frustrating thing, and a fun thing. Over time, it will also become a negation of itself and fall into the psychological state of "learned helplessness".
3. There are many cases that they are not interested in learning. In view of this situation, it is suggested that parents should first try to cultivate their children's interest in the subject, such as learning some relevant and interesting content for their children, and encourage them to explore more actively. Develop interest gradually. Once the interest is cultivated, the absorptive capacity will gradually increase, thus turning to a virtuous circle.
Consequences of the first graders not doing homework
To cultivate children's sense of responsibility, homework is actually a task assigned by teachers. It is also a good test of children's execution ability and sense of responsibility. Let children develop such an excellent ability to not only finish, but also do right.
There is no way to evaluate the learning effect. Generally speaking, the objectives of each lesson will be divided into three levels: understanding, mastering and using. The primary purpose of homework is to understand the students' mastery and application of the knowledge they learned that day; The second is to review and consolidate the content.
