The middle school entrance exam is coming soon, and the children's learning state is not good, which is definitely not good. Our parents need to pay attention to the children's psychological emotions, let the children learn to self hint, and don't worry about the final results. Now children always think a lot. We need to give the children correct guidance, and psychological counseling is essential.
How to deal with children who are not in good condition near the middle school entrance examination
1. We should cultivate children's positive and optimistic attitude. The first is to be positive. We should have goals, plans and actions to achieve our goals through our own efforts. And this goal is not imposed on children by adults. Through the current situation of children, let children develop goals that are suitable for them, and implement them according to the plan every day. And as long as they complete the task, they must affirm themselves. Tell yourself, I am very good today, I did very well.
At the same time, we should also learn to be optimistic. In this process, there will be many exams, and there may be unsatisfactory results. First of all, we should accept this fact, and at the same time learn to comfort ourselves. It is normal to have ups and downs. After we master the knowledge better, this rise and fall will be smaller.
2. However, we should be more involved in the children's study and life without disturbing them. Appropriate logistical support should help children to arrange their daily necessities. Too much will make children have a burden, it seems that if they can't learn well, they will be sorry for their family's efforts if they can't do well in the exam;
When the child is willing, listen to the child's voice, understand the child's internal needs, convey care and support, and let the child feel that this has nothing to do with the final exam results.
3. Give comfort and encouragement to children. In the face of children in the third year of junior high whose grades fluctuate greatly at ordinary times and whose psychological endurance is relatively poor, parents must keep rational and calm, and try to stand in the child's perspective, see the pressure the child is under, feel the tension and anxiety in the child's heart, give more comfort and encouragement to the child, and find ways to let the child relax.
4. It is necessary to build confidence for children. Parents need to help their children build confidence in the upcoming high school entrance examination. The improvement of academic performance is not an overnight thing, and the reconstruction of confidence also needs to start from a little bit. But as long as parents are willing to try, they will find that praise and encouragement really have magical power for children.
What's the reason for the decline of children's third grade exam
1. The child's performance has obviously fallen back, which may be caused by learning pressure and poor learning status. Entering the third day of junior high school means that the time of junior high school has entered the countdown to welcome the arrival of the high school entrance exam. At this stage, children have to bear great pressure to enter higher schools, which will lead to extreme mental tension.
Therefore, there is an obvious fluctuation in the scores of many children during this period, and the children's scores have obviously fallen back, which may be caused by your current learning pressure and poor learning status. If a child does not learn to self mediate under great pressure, it is likely to lead to insufficient sleep, insufficient energy to face the next day's classroom, poor knowledge and poor condition, and the performance will inevitably decline.
2. I have incorrect ideas about the exam. In fact, many children are prone to test anxiety when they are taking exams, because they think they should pay attention to it. If you do not do well in each exam, you will feel very sad and often feel helpless.
In this case, we must help the child to correct it. Let children realize that examination is only a means to test the learning effect of a period of time ago, and it does not represent everything.
What should I do if the child doesn't want to work hard because he doesn't study well
1. Don't always scold the child: first, when the child tells himself that he doesn't want to work hard, he should understand the child and encourage him. Don't tease the children all the time. Don't tease the children all the time. This will only make the children more unhappy. In such an environment, the children can't grow better, regain their self-confidence and confidence, and meet the challenges better.
A parent who truly understands education can teach his children how to regain self-confidence, rather than just scolding them for not working hard enough and not being attentive enough. If parents scold their children all the time, they will feel that they have lost their self-confidence and their future direction.
2. Help children establish learning goals. If a child is a self reliant and confident person, it is easy to achieve success in learning. At the same time, as a student, the main task is to learn. Good and bad learning is related to their own self-confidence, because the quality of students' learning is their own thing, learning for themselves, for their future survival, not for parents, teachers Learn for someone.
So don't be complacent because of others' praise, let alone abandon yourself because of others' criticism. Therefore, parents should take more effective measures to give children correct guidance.
