1. Thought guidance method: When educating children, families should closely contact their children's thoughts and conduct guided education from aspects of will, morality, discipline and law compliance. Insist on indoctrinating children with the idea that knowledge is power, and guide them to do their work according to their learning tasks, realistic thoughts, physical health and other characteristics.
2. Goal encouragement method: help children design learning goals to stimulate their enthusiasm and make them constantly climb to higher knowledge peaks. Therefore, parents should set realistic learning goals according to their children's ideological quality, cultural foundation and affordability. The goals set for children should not only adhere to high standards and strict requirements, but also be achievable through hard work; There should be both long-term and short-term goals.
3. Heart to heart counseling method: parents should timely conduct heart to heart counseling for children's psychological and ideological problems exposed at different times and for different reasons, encourage more than blame, and help them "catch up".
4. Reward and punishment incentive method: reward should be mainly spiritual reward, supplemented by material reward. For example, if the children have outstanding exam results, on the basis of school rewards, parents can praise them verbally, report to relatives and friends, expand the scope of praise, give priority to purchasing school supplies and daily necessities, and go to parks and movies. If you do not study carefully, resulting in poor exam results, you should be criticized and punished.