The rebellious period of a child is actually an important period from dependence to independence. Understand his reasonable elements, but guide the unreasonable places and explain the reasons. Children can generally understand you. If you can truly understand the psychological needs behind the child's rebellious behavior and respect his growth, you will not scratch your head. How to deal with the child's rebellion?
How to deal with children's rebellion
What if the child is rebellious
1. Listen and communicate more
Know him. Listening and communication is the root of solving children's rebellious psychology. Parents should observe children's behavior and acceptable communication methods. Communication must be flexible and diverse, listen to children's suggestions, and guide children to express their own ideas. Parents should remain calm and patient, understand the real reason for the child's rebellion, and release negative emotions.
2. Set an example
You might as well read him some positive inspirational books, such as biographies of celebrities, to let him have an example to learn from. Use your role model to discipline your behavior.
3. Create a good social atmosphere
Although it is not allowed to interfere with children's social circle too much, it can create a healthy social atmosphere for them, such as taking them out to meet different people and experiencing them in colleges and universities.
4. Put down dignity and respect children
In the rebellious period of youth, children are eager to be recognized and respected by the outside world. Parents should really put down their dignity and respect their children's ideas and decisions. They should not speak to children in a commanding tone, give them enough voice.
5. Play the role of father
The father's sense of rationality and trust is easier to win the child's heart than the anxious mother's communication, so the father must participate in the child's growth.
How to deal with children's rebellion
1. Keep a cool head
When children rebel, their parents will generally be dissatisfied, and will generally use their own strength to suppress their children. In fact, parents at this time should remind themselves to stay calm, and communicate after the children calm down. When a child rebells, his words and deeds will be like a storm. He or she does not know how to control himself, but his parents are adults, so they should know when to keep calm.
2. Listen more and preach less to help children be independent
When children rebel and disobey, parents teach their children by preaching, which will only lead to more resentment and unwillingness to change when they know they are wrong. Therefore, parents should observe their children's behavior and listen to their children's voice. Let her feel the respect of her parents, so that she can return to a rational review of her thoughts and behavior. Parents should learn more about children's independent consciousness through effective listening, so as to guide children more effectively.
3. Respect and trust your child
Because they have a strong sense of independence, we must honor them for this. Children often say that my parents don't trust me or understand me. In this case, we should give him certain rights and trust, let him do something independently, and accept their bad side. Because they are semi adults and children, trust is very important.
The rebellious period of children is not terrible. Parents need not panic. They should know that rebellion is actually the reflection of children's growth. As long as parents have more patience and understanding, and find solutions to children's rebellion, they can overcome the troubles caused by children's rebellion.
