A very popular saying recently is: "If you don't do homework, your mother will be kind and your son will be filial. If you do homework, your chickens will fly and your dogs will leap." This is a true portrayal of most parents. Because children always escape from homework and feel that they can delay for a while. So, how can children do their homework?
How to let children do homework
1. Plan in advance
One of the most important reasons for children's tardiness in doing homework is that they have no sense of time, but they simply have no habit of making plans. The first step is to let children consciously write their homework and make plans. Making plans is a process of overall planning in the early stage, which is equivalent to arousing self-awareness and cultivating a sense of participation. Spend ten minutes every day to communicate with children to make learning plans according to the subjects and quantity of homework.
In the process of making plans, parents should respect their children's ideas and give them advice, so that they can know that making plans is a serious matter. The operation method of making plans can refer to the tomato work method, that is, work for half an hour and rest for five minutes, so as not to be too tired and boring to learn. Learning with a plan will be efficient, and learning with a plan will be active.
2. Create a learning atmosphere
As the old saying goes, "He who is close to the ink will get red, and he who is close to the ink will get black.". "It emphasizes the impact of the environment on people. A quiet environment is more conducive to learning and thinking. It is difficult for children to settle down to do homework in a noisy environment. Homework is a required course every day. Parents should create a learning atmosphere for children in advance according to the designated plan. Many behaviors of children are imitated by adults. If adults watch TV or play with mobile phones while children are learning, children will think that since parents can't play themselves, role models are very important to create a learning atmosphere for children. Parents should set an example. For example, when children are doing homework, it is necessary for parents to turn off the TV and mobile phone voice over. If possible, they can pick up a book or a newspaper to learn and grow together with their children.
3. Work first, play later
Children like watching cartoons, playing games and other activities. However, homework should not be delayed because of this. Parents and children can reach an agreement: homework comes first, and "play" comes later. Because children should use their brains when doing homework, and at the same time, they should resist the interference of many adverse factors, so they will feel very tired after finishing homework. At this time, letting him do something he likes and relaxed is like giving him a comfort and a reward. The next time I do homework, I will have a good expectation, and I will have a high enthusiasm for doing homework.
4. Write with the child
It is very lonely to do homework at home. Even if parents force their children to do homework, their children will only cope. If parents can accompany their children to do homework at this time, even if parents simply sit beside their children, they can help them quickly enter the learning state. Every step of their children's growth needs to be accompanied, including when doing homework. Parents who accompany their children to do homework can not only supervise their children, but also help them when they are in trouble. In addition, it is also very helpful to cultivate parent-child relationship.
How can children do homework? If they want to do homework, parents need to make children feel fun from it. Only when they find fun, can they change their attitude towards homework.