A person's success, knowledge and ability may only account for about 30%, while good psychological quality can account for 70%, of which self-confidence is one of the very important psychological qualities. Self confidence is an important condition for success and a psychological quality to overcome difficulties. Self confidence is very important for children. So how to build self-confidence for children?
How to build self-confidence for children?
1. Be good at discovering children's strengths, and give timely encouragement when children have made progress in some aspect.
2. Parents should try their best to let go and create a relaxed environment for their children to dare to try.
3. Encourage children to participate in all activities organized by schools and classes. Such as recitation, speech, singing, etc., so that children have more opportunities to perform on the stage.
4. Don't always compare the weakness of the child with the strength of others. A blind comparison can only backfire. Because the most annoying thing for children is the hands of their parents. In the end, they either rebel or feel inferior.
5. Parents can help from daily life, timely and appropriately put forward the goal that children can overcome difficulties and achieve success within their ability or with a little effort, give children the opportunity to exercise independently, let children experience the happiness of success, and build real self-confidence.
6. Help children know themselves correctly. Only when children know themselves correctly, can they not focus on their own shortcomings. Only when we find our own strengths can we make use of our strengths and circumvent our weaknesses, give full play to our strengths and make achievements.
What are the manifestations of children's lack of self-confidence?
1. Like to hide themselves. Even their own songs, dances and knowledge will not be shown, because the children are afraid of not doing well, being laughed at by others and frustration.
2. Always deny yourself. Children who are too self abased will always say, I can't, I can't, I dare not, I'm stupid.
3. Excessive pursuit of praise. Such a child is very fragile in heart and hopes to be recognized very much, especially the affirmation of his parents. But once he fails to reach his goal, he will be angry, angry and angry.
4. Over sensitivity. For example, children often get angry because of a little criticism from their parents or what they don't like to hear, which makes parents always cautious.
5. Poor language expression. They are characterized by stuttering, incoherent expression, lack of emotion or poor vocabulary.
