Topic content:
Xiao Wang, the first grader, has been unhappy these days. What he fears most is returning home after school. "The main reason why I don't want to go home is that I'm afraid to see my father." Xiaowang said that he could guess what his father would say to him before he got home every day. "When I saw my first sentence, I would definitely ask 'Did you take the exam today'. If I said that I had taken the exam, he would ask 'How many points did you get in the exam'. If I said that I had not taken the exam, he would say 'Will you take the exam tomorrow? Go to read quickly'." "Can't Dad leave me alone?" Xiaowang said helplessly.
Xiaowang's father seemed very unintelligible about his son's behavior. "I really don't know what he wanted to do? After returning home, he hid in his room without talking to him. He didn't let me in. It was not easy to ask him a few questions when we were having dinner. He either buried his head in the meal and didn't speak, or he just 'hum, hum, ha, ha, ha,' casually dealt with me." When it comes to the conflict with his son, Father Wang seems helpless.
(1) Please talk about your understanding of the contradiction between Xiao Wang and his father (3 points)
(2) If you are Xiaowang's classmate, what good suggestions do you have for him? (9 points)
Best answer:
1. Adolescent psychology is full of contradictions, which are normal phenomena in the process of our physical development and psychological changes. It sometimes causes us to feel lonely, depressed and other negative emotions. If we do not handle it well, it will affect our physical and mental health. (3 points)
2. ① We should open our mind, communicate with parents, teachers and classmates, and seek their guidance and help.
② Improve your control, and carry out effective control through self suggestion, goal transfer, empathy, humor and other methods.
③ We should also constantly enrich ourselves. For example, read more books, participate in more cultural and sports activities, and participate in more social welfare activities.
④ We should understand and tolerate our parents and reach a consensus with them. (Full score can be obtained by answering 3 points that meet the meaning of the question) (9 points)
Answer analysis:
This question takes the generation gap between parents and children, which is common in real life, as the background to examine students' understanding of adolescent contradictory psychology, and grasp the ways to deal with it. The first question is to master the ability of learning to transfer material content to knowledge points. The second question can be given points as appropriate as long as the targeted measures and practices answered are effective and focus on the theme.
Test core:
Interpretation of the meaning of youth: youth not only means beautiful appearance, elegant temperament and healthy posture, but also means a new spiritual world; Youth is more reflected in a person's mentality, temperament, imagination and emotion, which is a new feeling surging from the undercurrent of life; Youth is a symbol of vitality, which contains wisdom, courage and will. How to understand that youth is happy?
① In adolescence, we will have many troubles. Maybe we will cry alone, sometimes even feel lost. But youth is more about dreams, passion and happiness.
② Because we have youth, we can enjoy our dreams and strive to pursue them.
③ Because we have youth, we are not afraid of failure, and believe that everything can start from scratch.
④ The happiness of youth needs our careful appreciation. Why is youth beautiful? (What is the value and mission of youth? How to understand youth?). Everyone has youth, but not everyone can grasp it well. We should cherish it more, grasp the good time of youth, and make our youth more beautiful.