The progress of science and technology has indeed brought great convenience to our life, but with the vigorous development of science and technology, the electronic products brought about not only let adults indulge in it, but also let children indulge in it. So, how can children play less with mobile phones?
How to make children play less with mobile phones
1. Cultivate children's wide interests while accompanying them
If children want to watch cartoons on their mobile phones, parents can clearly tell their children that this time is for watching cartoons, not for playing with mobile phones. After watching cartoons, mobile phones will be returned. Mobile phones are just a medium. At the same time, parents can play games and read with their children, and pay attention to their children's talent development, which can well cultivate their children's wide range of interests.
2. Help children establish basic rule awareness and develop good living habits
Parents should agree on rules, implement them together, and let children adapt to the rules, so as to help children develop good living habits. For example, when you get up in the morning, you should brush your teeth, wash your face, and tidy up the quilt. Parents and children should abide by them together, which helps children form a good sense of rules.
3. Cultivate children's interests
Only those things or things that children are really interested in can have great attraction to children and make them unwilling to play with mobile phones. Otherwise, children will play with mobile phones secretly behind their parents' backs. Therefore, parents should carefully observe their children's interests in daily life, and let them go to several interest classes for experience. If the child is really interested, parents can encourage the child to persist in learning and develop these hobbies into their own skills as far as possible.
4. Parents should set an example
In the family, the way that will have a bad impact on children is that parents hold a mobile phone at home all day. When children see that they want to play with mobile phones, they are rejected by their parents. But the parents' reason is very impressive: I am an adult, and I can play mobile phones after a hard day's work; Children can't play with mobile phones. This "double label" approach is actually telling children that playing with mobile phones is a "privilege", which will only make children feel unfair. Only in the relationship with children, set an example and use your own actions to persuade children.
5. Let children realize the danger of indulging in mobile phones
For any person, it is impossible to achieve positive results without their own approval. To change the current situation of addiction to mobile phones, children must be aware of the harm of "controlling" mobile phones and have the desire to change, which is the most fundamental and basic condition for giving up any addiction. Parents should reach a consensus with their children through peaceful communication, statement of facts and reasoning. Don't be emotional and alarmist, otherwise it is easy to cause children to have rebellious psychology, which is counterproductive. Compared with other addictive behaviors, cell phone addiction is relatively easy to give up as long as it can recognize the harm and get help and support from people around it.
How to let children play less with mobile phones? If parents directly confiscate or preach to solve the problem of children playing with mobile phones without paying attention to the real feelings of children's hearts, they will only make children more addicted to mobile phones, without solving the essential problems. "Peaches and plums don't speak, but they make a difference." Use your own actions to influence children, and believe in their self-control, so that children will become more self-conscious.