Ten year old boys have developed a sense of autonomy and feel that they are an independent individual without having to depend on their parents. They hope their parents can understand and support their ideas and practices. If their parents can't do it, they will fight against their parents to the end. So, how to guide the rebellious period of 10-year-old boys?
How to guide a 10-year-old boy during his rebellious period
1. Understand children attentively
At this stage, children often do some rebellious acts not out of their own will, but in this way to declare war on their parents to win their parents' respect and understanding. If parents can understand their children's ideas, they will not scold them loudly, or refuse to listen to their children's ideas, or impose their own ideas on them. Therefore, the premise for parents to educate their children is to understand their children, not to push them against themselves.
2. Praise more and criticize less
Children in the rebellious period should be praised more and not always judged. A little progress in life should be found in time, and enough praise and encouragement should be given to enhance their motivation for good.
3. Don't say "no" to children easily
For children in the rebellious period, what they need is our affirmation, not our negation. So many parents habitually say no to their children in the process, which may make them feel tired, thus aggravating the situation of children in the rebellious period.
4. Adequate communication
In the process of communicating with children, we must pay attention to the ways and means. We should not oppress them with the authority of parents, but stand in a relatively equal state, and do not try to inquire about children's privacy.
5. Set an example for children
The 10-year-old child has a reversible thinking. In the child's mind, all the rules must be followed together. The parents must also meet their own requirements. Only in this way can the child comply with their parents' requirements. Therefore, parents should set a good example for their children by setting an example in front of them. As long as parents can teach by example, they can achieve better educational results.
How to guide the rebellious period of a 10-year-old boy? The rebellious period is a period that everyone will spend. During this period, it is inevitable that he will do something baffling and vexatious. This is a normal phenomenon. Parents should pay more attention to their children, often communicate with them, and learn to make friends with them, so that children can walk out of the rebellious period more smoothly.