1. Don't take drastic measures. Some parents believe that "jade without polish will not become useful" and "children will not become useful without beating and scolding". Therefore, whenever a child makes a mistake, he does not reason calmly, but scolds and beats first regardless of the color. Such rude treatment of children not only fails to make them realize their own mistakes, but also is likely to leave a shadow in their hearts, and their personalities tend to become extreme.
2. Set an example. Children can see every word and deed of parents. Their imitation ability is very strong, and empty preaching is far less influential than actual action. Isn't there such a public service advertisement? The mother washes her grandmother's feet. The little son looks at it and learns to wash his mother's feet. Similarly, "the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked". If parents behave badly, it is hard to say that the children educated are not a failed copy. It can be seen that the words and deeds of adults are really important.
3. Adults' opinions should be unified. Sometimes parents should communicate with each other. They should strive for consensus on the same thing and have a unified attitude. They should not scold each other in front of their children. Otherwise, children often have different opinions and don't know who to listen to. Over time, the status and authority of adults in children's minds will also disappear, and it will be more difficult to discipline children.
4. Don't stifle children's interests. Academic work is important, but interest is the source of stimulating children's creativity. What the society needs now is not a reading machine, but a versatile person with all-round development. Therefore, if children show some hobbies, they should not interfere, but should be encouraged, which may become a skill of children.