It has never been easy to raise children, especially with the development of the times, when children seem to be "precocious" more than any other era, they have rich knowledge, participated in many social activities, expressed themselves more bravely, and even in all kinds of communication with their parents, they can always be in the "upper hand", Sometimes we even feel "powerless". So, what if a 10 year old kid talks back and doesn't listen?
What should I do if a 10-year-old kid talks back and doesn't listen
1. Be prepared and treat correctly
Parents should be mentally prepared. When children begin to appear, parents should not be particularly serious and impatient with their children. They should be more patient. They should put their children and themselves in the same position to communicate with their children. It is good for children and parents to be mentally prepared in advance.
2. Give the child a chance to argue
There are reasons for children to answer back. Parents should listen to their children patiently, do not impose their own ideas on them, make arbitrary judgments on them, and do not scold and physically punish them because they are young, thus forcing them to obey themselves. Instead, it is necessary to create a democratic atmosphere in the family, so that children can know that only when they are reasonable can they gain a firm foothold, and forceful argument or sophistry will be punished. This punishment can be done by closing the door, stopping their feet, canceling the plan to go out, etc., so that children can explain right and wrong, and learn to face setbacks and difficulties head-on.
3. Multi communication
In order to change the child's temper and character, parents should create opportunities for the child to communicate with others, and take the child to play with partners of the same age. In daily life, parents should also communicate with their children more, so that their children can slowly change their personality when communicating with others.
Reasons for 10 year old children answering back and disobedience
1. Parents' doting
In today's society, there are too many only children. For families who want children, children become the apple of their eyes. There is no bottom line for parents to spoil their children. No matter what children want, parents will certainly get it for them. If parents do not meet their children's requirements, children will keep crying and crying, knowing that parents have given them what they want, And it is this doting without a bottom line that makes children's stubborn and sensitive period. Because children firmly believe that parents will not treat them well, they will become particularly naughty and are not afraid of parents' beating and scolding. Therefore, parents must have a bottom line of doting on children.
2. Parents interfere too much
Many parents do not realize that their children have a sense of independence. Instead, they interfere with their children's life and learning as much as before, asking them to follow their own path everywhere, which leads to their children's rebellious psychology.
What should we do if a 10-year-old child talks back and does not listen? Children talk back because they have ideas. It is the best way to improve their habit of talking back. Parents put down their posture and leaned down to listen to their children's ideas. Their own words taught children how to "respect" others, so as to improve their habit of "talking back".