First of all, parents should understand that achievements do not mean everything to their children. If they cannot pass the examination, they will scold their children too much. Secondly, we should also realize that there is a process of adaptation for children, and parents also need to do a good job in assisting children to better adapt to learning. So, what if children can't keep up with school?
What to do if children can't keep up with school
1. Parents should be calm
If children can't keep up with their studies, they should carefully evaluate their comprehensive learning ability, analyze potential advantages and disadvantages, and help them according to their actual conditions. But at the same time, parents should also calm down and realize that when children just enter the campus, they should mainly adapt to the campus collective and cultivate learning habits. The homework itself is not difficult. Parents should learn to arouse their children's self-confidence and gradually improve their children's interest in learning.
2. Stimulate children's interest in learning
If children are interested in learning, they will take the initiative in learning, and the learning effect will be good, which will form a virtuous circle over time. During this period, parents are also required to fully recognize their children's efforts, encourage and reward them in time, and fully stimulate their interest in learning. Interest is the best teacher. If children's interest in learning becomes higher and higher, they can enjoy the fun of learning.
3. Cultivate children's learning habits
Parents should pay attention to developing their children's learning habits and autonomous learning ability. They should not give answers to homework directly, but should guide their children to think more and support their children to choose the difficulty and pace of learning. Let children complete the transition from obeying learning interests to developing good learning habits, cultivate children's active exploration spirit, and gradually arrange their own learning time, learning methods and goals. Over time, children will naturally catch up step by step.
4. Give children time to plan
After the child has mastered the learning methods and cultivated certain learning habits, parents should also make plans for the child's time and reasonably control the child's learning time. For example, arrange a schedule for children, arrange the time for a day's study, what to do in the morning, what to do at noon, and what to do at night. At the same time, it is also necessary to clearly record the learning aspects on the form. It is best to let the children simply write out the plan of the day, and parents should timely confirm and supervise.
5. Don't force children too much
Parents also need to recognize the reality according to the actual situation of their children. They can learn as much as they can within the acceptable range of their children, and learn as much as they can. It is not necessary to overemphasize what children cannot accept or understand. As long as they grow up healthily, it is the most important thing. With the growth of age, children can also learn some life skills to lay the foundation for later integration into society.
What should we do if our children can't keep up with their schooling? Parents should not only find out their children's problems in time, but also master certain methods to gradually cultivate their children's good learning habits. At the same time, parents should maintain a stable attitude and realize that the improvement of children's performance is a gradual process.
