In the era of information explosion, whether it is computers, mobile phones, or books, children receive more information and discuss things than you can imagine. Today's children, whether physically or psychologically mature, are relatively early. Especially in adolescence, children are prone to early love. So, how can 12 year old girls correctly guide their puppy love?
How to correctly guide 12 year old girls' puppy love
1. Positive education enables children to form a correct understanding of puppy love
To prevent the occurrence of puppy love and reduce the incidence of puppy love, first of all, positive education should be carried out to make them realize the harm of puppy love, and science popularization of puppy love knowledge should be carried out, especially the physical and mental harm of puppy love and the obstacles to learning should be prevented in advance.
2. Positive response and correct understanding of puppy love
When puppy love occurs, we should take a positive way to deal with it, and dredge its various uneasy reactions to calm its mind, so as to reduce pressure.
3. Set lofty ambitions and divert attention
As they grow older and are faced with learning new things, their interests will become extremely wide. They hope to find out the reasons for many things. At this time, it is necessary to carry out motivational education, so that children can establish lofty aspirations, stimulate their enterprising spirit, study hard, and save energy for their own bright future. Through good educational means, we can mobilize children's enthusiasm for learning, let them turn their attention to the fun of learning, so that students can find happiness in learning, form a correct outlook on life, and dilute their psychological tendency of puppy love.
Reasons for 12 year old girls' puppy love
1. Some effects of reading novels or books
Some students may watch TV or books, which will make them curious about the opposite sex, and then have an idea of puppy love. Now the information is particularly developed, and all kinds of channels can access some information, so children will be more easily exposed to the information of the opposite sex and see more, so they will be curious in this regard, thus generating some impulses.
2. Children want the attention of the opposite sex
Adolescent children hope to be recognized by the opposite sex. If they can't attract their parents' attention at home, they want to attract others' attention at school to prove their ability and charm. We will find that adolescent children begin to pay attention to dressing up. Girls will pay attention to their hair style and skin. Especially in some families, the father seldom cares about his daughter, so the daughter is prone to "puppy love". The purpose of the daughter's doing so is to prove that she is attractive to men and can get their attention.
How to guide 12-year-old girls' puppy love correctly? The phenomenon of puppy love is a psychological and physiological problem composed of various factors. We should attach great importance to it, properly handle it, and help children get rid of puppy love in time. It enables the healthy development of children's physical and mental health, and makes the physical and mental health education more energetic.