Children are too introverted, which is sometimes not conducive to the cultivation of children's interpersonal relationships. Therefore, if parents want their children to grow up healthily and have a group of friends, the first thing to do is to change the children's introverted personality. Only in this way can children's interpersonal problems be solved. However, this also requires ways and means, not to say that it can be changed casually. So how can children change if they are too introverted?
How to change children who are too introverted
1. Create a harmonious atmosphere
First of all, parents should create a warm family environment. In such an environment, children will have a sense of security and will be more willing to communicate with their parents, which will help to cultivate a cheerful personality.
2. Communicate more with peers
Compared with parents, children may have more to say with their peers, so more opportunities can be created for children to interact with children of the same age. For example, if children are invited to the home and their children are the host for a time, they will be happy to greet their partners, which can gradually enhance their self-confidence and make their character become cheerful.
3. Protect children's self-esteem
Although children are young, their self-esteem is not small. Usually, we should communicate with children and encourage them to speak. We should never punish or attack children with words. This will help to shape their lively character.
4. Actively communicate with children
Introverted children seldom take the initiative to speak, so parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children, so that they can go to the depth of their children's hearts and correctly guide their children to open their hearts. In this way, children are gradually willing to communicate and play with other children.
5. Let children exercise independence
If a child is introverted and does not like to communicate with the outside world, a better way to deal with it is to let the child do something independently, such as buying a bottle of soy sauce in the supermarket, or borrowing something from a neighbor. These exercises will make children more independent and dare to touch things they like.
The reason why children are too introverted
1. Self awareness sensitivity
Because children's self-consciousness is sensitive, they will feel nervous when they see people. For example, some children behave generously and politely when their parents ask them to interact with others, but some children will feel nervous, timid, evasive and withdrawn because their children pay too much attention to each other as strangers. If parents still blame their children at this time, they dare not communicate with others and withdraw to their own personal world.
2. Impact of family environment
The formation of children's character is inseparable from the influence of parents and family environment. The reasons for the introverted development of some children's personalities are inseparable from the influence of their family environment. If parents are relatively indifferent, most children will be like their parents. Therefore, if parents want their children to be outgoing, they should start from their own and family environment.
3. Impact of family education
Strict and harsh family education, it is easy for children to develop introverted and withdrawn character. Children often become extremely timid and cowardly under the severe criticism of their parents, and their character becomes quiet. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the ways and means to prevent their children from developing introverted personality when carrying out family education for their children.
How to change a child's introversion? Parents should first create a good family atmosphere for the child, and then guide the child to interact with peers more, so as to slowly change the child's introverted character.
